Domostroy of the 16th century in Rus'. Holidays and traditions in Rus' of the XV-XVI centuries

"Domostroy" of the 16th century taught: "Invite the poor and the needy, and the mournful, and strange strangers to your house and, according to your strength, feed and drink." At a time when charity was a private “holy” thing in Rus', the kings and queens carried it out in the form of alms and feedings. Historians I.E.Zabelin, G.K.Kotoshikhin write about the huge alms given by royal persons to church persons and the beggars who flock to monasteries and palaces. Alms were distributed in connection with the holidays, as well as significant events in the life and death of kings and queens.

“Before the onset of Great Lent, on Cheese Week, the Russian tsars distributed abundant alms, and then went to the monasteries to say goodbye to the elders and gave them alms, and they said about the queen that she went. Kings and queens often made trips to monasteries; along the roads where the royal train, assembled with purely Asian luxury, rode, beggars came out and lay down, and passing alms were given to the beggars, couchettes, decrepit old men and all kinds of miserable and poor people.<…>By the time of the tsar’s arrival at the monastery, many beggars flocked there, and the tsars distributed generous alms to the poor and the monastery brethren ”(Pryzhov).

“The king and queen go through almshouses and prisons, and give alms; in the same way, they give the poor and wretched people a ruble each and a half a ruble and less than a man. And a lot of thousands of that money is spent ”(Kotoshikhin).

The descriptions of royal charity written by Grigory Karpovich Kotoshikhin are interesting. He served as an ordinary officer of the Ambassadorial order. Participating in negotiations with the Swedes, he told the Swedes secret data. After participating in the campaign for negotiations with the Poles, he fled to Sweden, took a new name in the manner of the Polish [Selitsky], abandoned Orthodoxy and converted to Protestantism, entered the Swedish service in the state archive and wrote an essay [some analytical review] about Rus' in the reign of Alexei Mikhailovich ; in 1667 he was executed for the drunken murder of the owner of the house in which he lived. Having ingloriously ended his life, G. Kotoshikhin, however, left interesting descriptions of the social reality of the 17th century as evidence of a contemporary of Tsar Alexei Mikhailovich. He described in detail the state structure, traditions, the procedure for holding weddings, funerals, etc. among royal people. The level of costs for the ceremony is striking, as well as the negative consequences of the poverty that has been integrated into these rituals:

“Then, as they bury the king, wax candles, twisted and simple, are given to people of every rank, for seeing them off, - and those candles will go out at that time more than 10 berkowesques. Yes, at the same time, the giver is the royal treasury, for burial, by the authorities, and by the priest and deacon, money ... Yes, at the same time, in all the Orders, having made a lot of money, they wrap in papers a ruble and a half and a half and a half, and having taken out to the square, the clerks distribute alms to the poor and the poor, and to people of all ranks, on hand; also in the monastery, the elder and the clerks, and in the almshouses, they distribute to every person rubles for 5 and 3 and 2 and one, depending on the person; and in all the cities, the blacks, and the priests, and the poor, are given funeral money and alms, against Moscow half and a third. Also, in Moscow and in the cities, all thieves, for the royal death, are released from prisons without punishment.

Woe then to the people who were at that burial, because the burial takes place at night, and there are many people, Moscow and visitors from cities and counties; and the nature of Moscow people is not God-fearing, from the male to the floor and the female, the clothes are robbed through the streets and killed to death; and the detective of that day, when a king is buried, more than a hundred dead people killed and slaughtered. And as a blow-by after the death of the royal 40 days, they are called sorochiny, and then the authorities, and the queen and the princes, and the boyars, are in the same church at mass and sing a panafida for the king; and then for the authorities, and for the boyars, and for the priests, in the royal house there is a table, and in the monasteries of the monks they are fed by the neighbors, and they give alms against full burial. And it will be spent on the royal burial of money, in Moscow and in the cities, close to what will come from the state treasury for a year.

Practiced "feeding" - the so-called "tables". “These tables - a remnant of ancient tribal customs to treat their neighbors, the poor, belonging to the clan, and strangers (wanderers) on holidays - were subsequently arranged for purely religious purposes. There were tables in large monasteries and with the patriarchs. ... Grains from these meals were fed to the poor. ... Finally, there were often royal tables for the boyars and the clergy; the poor and the poor were invited to the tables. Thus, in 1678, the patriarch fed 2,500 beggars” (Pryzhov). Since ancient times, the church has taught: “When you make a feast, and call both the brethren and the clan and the nobles…

P.K. Kotoshikhin wrote: “It is the same custom on other days to have tables for stewards, for solicitors, for Moscow nobles, and for guests, and for hundreds of elders, and for city elected townspeople; ... Priests and deacons, and servants of cathedral churches and others are fed in the royal court for more than one day, but others are given food and drink in the Houses; Yes, they are given money, that they prayed to God for their public health, 10 and 5 rubles and tenge each, and the smallest at most half a ruble, depending on the churches, how someone receives the annual royal salary. And royal letters are sent to the cities, cathedral and other churches are ordered by the priest and deacon to give money for prayers, against Moscow to the floors, from the Gorodets income. Yes, stewards, lawyers, tenants are sent from Moscow to the cities through the monastery with alms and with prayer money, and feed the scoops - and they give money at 5 rubles and 4 and 3 and 2 and a ruble and a half and less to a person a black man, depending on the person, and on a towel and 2 handkerchiefs each; but they bless those people with images and give them, from the monastery treasury, what happened.

According to the research of I. Pryzhov, in the 17th century, beggars, holy fools and the like ate and drank most of the royal reserves. The royal persons did not just feed the beggars - they had charitable conversations with them, took them to their chambers for conversations. They were treated to the best food and drink. “According to popular legend, the wife of Prince Vladimir treated them to overseas wines; in her chambers the beggars drank, ate, and made fun. The same is true in the 17th century. At Marfa Matveevna, for example, at the wake of Tsar Fyodor Alekseevich, 300 beggars were fed in five days ... Praskovya Feodorovna also had 300 people in 5 days for Tsar Ivan Alekseevich. Tatyana Mikhailovna has 220 people in 9 days. Evdokia Alekseevna, with her sisters, has 350 people in 7 days. Having great wealth, the royal persons, and after them the boyars and others, saving themselves by charity, in fact, stimulated the development of begging in Rus'.

The impoverished blasphemers interfered with the administration of the Orthodox rite, the church service. Alexei Mikhailovich, “complacent and pious”, “devout pilgrimage”, was very poor-loving. On Christmas Eve, early in the morning, he went secretly to prisons and almshouses, distributing generous alms there; he did the same alms in the streets to the poor and needy. The historian V.O. Klyuchevsky writes about him this way: “He loved people and wished them all the best, because he did not want them to upset his quiet personal joys with their grief and complaints ... he was little disposed to defend or hold anything , as well as with something for a long time to fight. Under Tsar Alexei Mikhailovich, in 1649, the “Cathedral Code” was adopted (which was in force until 1832!), In which there is a provision on public fundraising for the ransom of prisoners: demonstrating deanery in every possible way, Alexei Mikhailovich followed the good tradition of Russian rulers to redeem compatriots from the crowd. The order of redemption was similar to that which existed under Ivan the Terrible, according to the principle of distribution of "general alms" to all "plows". A “rate” of ransom was established depending on the social status of the captives and a special general tax - “polonian money”. Personal charity of Alexei Mikhailovich, however, could in no way compensate for the evil that happened during the years of his reign - the split of the Russian Orthodox Church, the split of the whole people to those who accepted the reform, the Nikonians, and those who later became known as the Old Believers. Huge strata of the population of Rus' were subjected to such cruel persecutions under Alexei Mikhailovich, and such a groan from the bloody "reform" similar to genocide stood on the Russian land that a discussion of the charity of the Quietest would look absurd. The introduction of chaos into the affairs of faith, the loss of the usual ethical guidelines led to the fact that a superficial attitude towards religion and hypocrisy spread.

A unique cultural monument remained to contemporaries from the inhabitants of ancient Rus'. Compiled in the 16th century, the book was the only correct guide, not only for those who build a house. She was taken as a basis in matters and housekeeping. What is Domostroy, what was it for our ancestors and what is its significance for historians? Let's try to figure it out.

Encyclopedia of ancient Rus'

"Domostroy" is a set of rules and tips for every day. He combined the spiritual and the mundane. No wonder it became the first "Encyclopedia of the Household" - that's what "Domostroy" is.

Some foreigners are mistakenly convinced that the content of Domostroy is known to all residents of Russia without exception.

The appearance of "Domostroy"

In the 16th century, the number of handwritten books increased. They were very valuable. Instead of parchment, paper was successfully used, which was delivered to Russia from Europe. Therefore, the creation of "Domostroy" could be both in handwritten form and in printed form. Some researchers report two versions of the old encyclopedia. One of them has a very ancient style, strict, but correct and wise. And the second is crammed with rigid and strange orders.

Domostroy appeared (the year of creation is not known for certain) in the first half of the 16th century in Veliky Novgorod.

The predecessors were such Slavic collections with teachings and recommendations as "Chrysostom", "Izmaragd", "Golden Chain".

In Domostroy, all previously published knowledge and norms were summarized. Examining Monomakh's "Instruction", one can find much in common in the rules of moral behavior of different eras.

Who owns the copyright?

Opinions about the creators of the unique encyclopedia differ. Some researchers are sure that the author of "Domostroy" is the confessor of Ivan the Terrible - Archpriest Sylvester. He created a book for the guidance of the king. Others believe that Sylvester only rewrote Domostroy in the middle of the 16th century.

It is worth studying the contents of this book on the household to understand what it required and why it was so revered by the church. If we take the creation of Sylvester as a basis, then it has a preface, a message from son to father and almost 70 (more precisely 67) chapters. They were reunited into the main sections devoted to the spiritual, worldly, family, cooking.

Almost all chapters have a close connection with Christian rules and commandments. After the "instruction of the father to the son," the next chapter tells how it is right for Christians to believe in the Holy Trinity and the Most Pure Mother of God. It tells how to worship holy relics and holy powers.

Great importance in the book is given to the veneration of the king and any ruler, which united the significance of the church and the ruler for the people.

Father's instruction to son

I would like to get acquainted with the book "Domostroy", a summary of which is described above, in a little more detail.

A special place is occupied by the most important instruction of "Domostroy" - the commandment of the father. Turning to his son, he first of all blesses him. Further, he instructs his son, his wife and children to live according to Christian laws, with truth and a clear conscience, believing and keeping the commandments of God. The father gives these lines to his son and his household and emphasizes: "If you do not accept this scripture, then you will answer for yourself on the Day of Judgment."

Majesty, wisdom and pride are invested in it. Such instructions would be relevant at any time. After all, all parents wish their children well, they want to see them as honest, merciful and worthy people. Modern youth often do not hear such phrases from their fathers and mothers. And Domostroy, the year of its creation fell on a period of special reverence for God, put everything in its place. This is a law that must be followed, period. He was not questioned. He placed all family members on his "steps", determined the relationship between them and, most importantly, united them. That's what "Domostroy" is.

Honor and obedience to father and mother

Children are strictly forbidden to swear at their parents, insult them and condemn them. Her instructions must be carried out unquestioningly, without discussing what the parents said.

All children must love their father and mother, obey them, honor their old age and obey them in everything. Those who disobey face damnation and excommunication. And children who render obedience to their father and mother have nothing to fear - they will live in goodness and without misfortune.

The chapter is filled with wisdom, respect for the individual. It reminds of the inseparability of the future and the past, that honoring parents is the strength of the whole society. Unfortunately, this is not promoted now as the truth and the norm. Parents have lost authority over their children.

About needlework

In those distant times, honest work was revered very highly. Therefore, the rules of "Domostroy" touched on the conscientious and high-quality performance of any work.

Those who lie, work dishonestly, steal, and do not do good for the good of society were condemned. Before starting any work, it was required to cross oneself and ask for blessings from the Lord, to bow three times to the ground to the saints. Any needlework (cooking, stockpiling, handicraft) must begin with clean thoughts and washed hands.

Everything that is done with pure thoughts and desire will benefit people. Is it possible to argue with this? ..

Domostroy ban

With the advent of the new government in 1917, this set of rules was canceled and even banned. Of course, this was due to the fact that the revolutionaries opposed religious propaganda and everything connected with it. Therefore, Domostroy could not be approved by the new government. The struggle against autocracy and serfdom (supported by the church) forbade the mention of religion and Orthodoxy.

In any literature, the authors of that time brought the idea of ​​atheism to the reader. Of course, a book with teachings on honoring priests and monks, one's spiritual fathers, serving the king and all rulers could not be allowed in any case.

Such a struggle with religion for many decades did not have a favorable effect on the morality of modern society.

educational value

Despite the mention in the book of such words as “last judgment”, “demon”, “evil one”, all these commandments could now become a good guide to everyday actions. Considering the fact that “laws are not written” for the modern inhabitants of Russia, it is not possible to rely on a set of generally accepted rules.

Manners of behavior are developed on the basis of moral norms that are laid down by parents, school, and society. This is not always given due attention. Not to mention that any rules are accepted by everyone for daily use. The church has ceased to be taken so seriously by people as to honor all the divine commandments.

Now many works are being rethought and taking on a new meaning. Works that were rejected, condemned, are recognized as brilliant and talented. "Domostroy" is one of such unique creations, carrying a lot of valuable practical advice for every day for the modern family, the younger generation and all people. The main idea of ​​the book is the upbringing of children from the very first days, directing the child to good deeds and showing goodness in all his actions. Isn't this what is so lacking in our society, full of lies, hypocrisy, envy, anger and aggression?

Historical meaning

Thanks to the appearance of this book, today we can get information about the life and life of people of that time. "Domostroy" was written for a wide range of readers, for people of different social status.

This guide is for the military, clerks, servicemen and all citizens who have a family, create their own hearth. Whether the book reflects real life or is a rule for creating an ideal life, it is of great historical significance for people living in Russia today. Researchers use it to study leisure, cultural and intellectual life of the population of Rus' in the 16th century. Although while such entertainment did not exist at all, since the church condemned and forbade any entertainment. What is "Domostroy" for historians? This is important information about private life, family values, religious rules, traditions and the laws of everyday life in the Russian family of that time.

In the middle of the 16th century, a monument of folk customs "Domostroy" appeared. It was a collection of not just practical advice on how to punish children, salt mushrooms, put clean dishes on the table, but also other recommendations: how to decorate your home so that it was "like entering paradise."

Pop Sylvester is considered the author of Domostroy. This book is a code of conduct in home life. The author of Domostroy paid special attention to how a woman should behave - the mother of the family, the mistress of the house. According to "Domostroy", the whole burden of household chores lay on women's shoulders. A woman had to economically manage the household, not throw anything away, and be able to prepare food for the future.

Women were not supposed to participate in public life, and they were not even allowed to just walk the streets. The more noble the family, the more strictness fell on the lot of a woman. The most unfortunate of the Russian girls were the princesses (royal daughters). It was very difficult for them to even get married: religion did not allow for subjects - not according to rank, for foreigners. Other noble women lived a little better - they were hidden from human eyes, and even in the church a place was specially fenced off for them.

When a girl was given in marriage, no one asked her consent, and often she met the groom already at the wedding.

In women's clothing, even the most expensive, there was also austerity. A headdress was obligatory for a woman, to open her hair - “to goof off” - was a great shame for a woman. The Russian national dress - a sundress - completely hid the figure of a woman from immodest glances.

"Domostroy", without exaggeration, is an outstanding work, which defines the rules of home organization, which concerned spiritual life, relationships within the family and housekeeping. "Domostroy", according to the author, was supposed to help the Russian person to behave correctly both in state and in family life. It affirmed a deep faith in God, true mercy, honesty, diligence, and mutual respect. Idleness and vanity, drunkenness and overeating, slander and greed were condemned.

1.: #c1 Father's teaching to son.

2.: #c2 How can Christians believe in the Holy Trinity and the Most Pure Mother of God and in the Cross of Christ and how to worship the holy, incorporeal powers of heaven, and all honest and holy relics.

3.: #c3 How to partake of the mysteries of God and believe in the resurrection from the dead and expect the Last Judgment, and how to touch any shrine.

4.: #c4 How to love the Lord and your neighbor with all your soul, to have the fear of God and remember about death.

5.: #c5 How to honor a king or a prince and obey them in everything, and submit to any authority, and serve them with truth in everything, big and small, as well as sick and weak - to any person, whoever he is; and think it over for yourself.

6.: #c6 How people should honor their spiritual fathers and obey them in everything.

7.: #c7 How to honor bishops, as well as priests and monks, in all sorrows of the soul and body, it is beneficial to confess to them.

8.: #c8 How can Christians heal from illnesses and from all kinds of suffering - for kings, and princes, and all kinds of people, bishops, and priests, and monks, and all Christians.

[About sorcery and sorcerers]

9.: #c9 How to visit anyone in suffering in monasteries, hospitals and dungeons.

10.: #c10 How to come with gifts in God's church and monasteries.

11.: #c11 How to decorate your house with holy images and keep your home clean.

12.: #c12 How can a husband and wife and household members pray to God at home.

13.: #c13 How a husband and wife pray in church, keep cleanliness, avoiding all evil.

14.: #c14 How to invite priests and monks to your house for prayer.

15.: #c15 How to treat gratefully coming to your house with your family members.

16.: #c16 How can a husband and wife consult on what to punish the housekeeper about the dining room, about the kitchen and about the bakery.

17.: #c17 Order for the housekeeper in case of a feast.

18.: #c18 Master's order to the key keeper how to prepare lean and meat dishes and feed the family during the meat-eater and during the fast.

19.: #c19 How to bring up your children in different teachings and the fear of God.

20.: #c20 How to raise daughters and marry them off with a dowry.

21.: #c21 How to teach children and save them with fear.

22.: #c22 How children love and cherish their father and mother, and obey them, and comfort them in everything.

23.: #c23 Praise for husbands.

24.: #c24 How to do needlework for every person and do any business, blessing.

25.: #c25 A command to husband and wife and children and servants about how they should live.

26.: #c26 What kind of servants to keep with you and how to take care of them in all their teaching and according to the divine commandments, and in household work.

27.: #c27 If a husband himself does not teach good things, then God will punish him; but if he himself does good, and teaches his wife and household that, he will receive mercy from God.

28.: #c28 About unrighteous living.

29.: #c29 About a righteous life.

30.: #c30 How can a man live within his means

31.: #c31 Who lives imprudently.

32.: #c32 Who keeps servants without supervision.

33.: #c33 How can a husband educate his wife so that she can both please God and adapt to her husband, so that she can better arrange her house and know all household chores and needlework, and train servants, and work herself.

34.: #c34 About craftswomen good wives, about their thriftiness and about what to cut, how to save leftovers and trimmings.

35.: #c35 How to cut different clothes and save leftovers and trimmings.

36.: #c36 How to keep order at home and what to do if you have to ask people for something or give people yours.

37.: #c37 As a mistress, she should look after the servants in the household and needlework every day, and she herself should keep everything and increase everything.

38.: #c38 When you send servants to people, tell them not to talk too much.

39.: #c39 How a wife and her husband should consult every day and ask about everything: how to visit, how to invite them to your place, and what to talk about with guests.

40.: #c40 Instruction to wives about drunkenness and intoxicating drink (and to servants as well): not to secretly keep anything anywhere, but not to trust the slander and deceit of servants without inquiry; to instruct them with severity (and his wife as well), and how to stay at a party and behave correctly at home.

41.: #c41 How to wear different clothes for a wife and how to sew them.

42.: #c42 How to keep dishes and housekeeping in perfect order, keep all rooms well clean; as a mistress to instruct servants in this, and for a husband to check his wife, teach and save with the fear of God.

43.: #c43 As the owner himself, or to whom he orders, to buy supplies for a year and other goods.

44.: #c44 How can I buy various overseas goods from distant lands at my expense.

45.: #c45 When and what to buy for someone who has no villages, all sorts of household supplies, in summer and winter, and how to store for a year, and how to raise all kinds of cattle at home, keep food and drink constantly.

46.: #c46

47.: #c47 About profit from stockpiled for future use.

48.: #c48 How to garden and garden.

49.: #c49 What supplies of drinks should the owner keep for himself and guests, and how should the servants prepare them.

50.: #c50 Instructions to cooks: how to brew beer and feed mead, and smoke wine.

51.: #c51 How to look after the cooks, the bakers, and everywhere - the whole household.

52.: #c52 As in the granaries and in the bins, the keykeepers would have all the grain and other supplies safe.

53.: #c53 Also in the dryer, the keykeeper should look after fish, dried and dried, for plast meat and tongues.

54.: #c54 How to keep everything in the cellar, on the glacier and in the tomb.

55.: #c55 How to keep everything in order in the cages, basements and barns, as ordered by the master's key keeper.

56.: #c56 How to keep hay in the haylofts and horses in the stables, and in the yard a supply of firewood and timber, and take care of all the cattle.

57.: #c57 How to cook in kitchens, bakeries and workrooms, and how to understand what is cooked.

58.: #c58 How best to look after cellars and glaciers, in granaries and dryers, in barns and stables.

59.: #c59 As a master, having found out everything, reward the servants according to their merits, and punish the bad ones.

60.: #c60 About merchants and shopkeepers: how best to pay them off.

61.: #c61 How to arrange a yard or a shop, or a barn and a village.

62.: #c62 It is like a household tax to pay either from the shop or from the village to pay, and to debtors to repay debts.

63.: #c63 Instructing the keykeeper how to store all sorts of salted supplies in the cellar - in barrels, and in tubs, and in merniks, and in vats, and in buckets of meat, fish, cabbage, cucumbers, plums, lemons, caviar, mushrooms and mushrooms.

64.: #c64 Notes for the whole year, what to serve at the table, meat and lenten food, and about coarse flour, how to cook flour and what from a quarter of canteen rolls, and about all kinds of rolls.

65.: #c65 The rule about different sycheny honeys, how to satiate all sorts of honeys, how to cook berry juice, and simple to put honey kvass, and simple beer to add honey, and prepare sourdough.

66.: #c66 Rules about all sorts of different vegetables, how to cook, dress and store them. Notes of a different kind for the whole year: table dishes are served in the Uspensky meat-eater.

67.: #c67 Wedding rites; about how to marry a young prince - four articles, four ceremonies: a large and medium and small rites.

Preface to this book, so be it!

Teaching and punishment of the spiritual fathers to all Orthodox Christians on how to believe in the Holy Trinity and the Most Pure Mother of God and in the cross of Christ and in the heavenly powers, and to worship the holy relics and partake of the sacraments of the saints and how to apply the rest of the shrine. About how to honor the Tsar and his princes and nobles, for the apostle said: “To whom honor is honor, to whom tribute is tribute, to whom to give is to give”, “he does not carry a sword in vain, but in praise of the virtuous, but in punishment to the foolish.” “Do you want not to be afraid of power? Always do good" - before God and before her, and obey her in everything and serve in truth - you will be a chosen vessel and you will carry the royal name in yourself.

And about how to honor saints, priests and monks - and receive benefits from them and ask prayers for the blessing of your house and all your needs, both spiritual and bodily, but most of all spiritual - and listen to them with diligence, and listen to their teachings, as if from the mouth of God.

And in this book you will also find a charter about the worldly structure: about how Orthodox Christians live in peace with their wives and children and household members, how to instruct them and instruct them, and save them with fear and forbid strictly and in all their affairs to preserve them in purity, spiritual and bodily, and take care of them as if they were their own part of the body, for the Lord said: “Let you both become one flesh,” for the apostle said: “If one member suffers, then all suffer with it”; so do you, do not worry about yourself alone, but also about your wife and your children and about everyone else - to the very last household, for we are all bound by one faith in God. And with such good diligence, bring love to all who live in a divine way, like the eye of the heart, looking at God, and you will be like a chosen vessel, not carrying yourself alone to God, but many, and you will hear: “Good servant, faithful servant, be in the joy of their Lord!”

And also in this book you will find a charter on house building, how to teach a wife and children and servants, and how to collect any stock - grain, and meat, and fish, and vegetables, and about housekeeping, especially in difficult cases. And in total here you will find 67 chapters.

1. Teaching from father to son

I bless, sinner (name), and teach, and instruct, and admonish my only son (name) and his wife (name), and their children, and household members - to follow Christian laws, live with a clear conscience and in truth, in faith observing the will of God and his commandments, and asserting himself in the fear of God and in a righteous life, instructing his wife and household members not by coercion, not by beating, not by hard work, but like children, that they are always at rest, dressed and fed, and in a warm house and always ok. I entrust to you, who live in a Christian way, this scripture as a keepsake, for admonishment to you and your children. If you don’t accept my writings, you don’t follow the instructions, you don’t live according to it and you don’t act as it is said here, give an answer for yourself on the day of the Last Judgment, and I am not involved in your crimes and sins, it’s not my fault: I blessed you for a decent life, and meditated, and prayed, and taught, and wrote to you. If, however, you accept my simple teaching and my insignificant instruction with all the purity of your soul and read it, asking God for help and understanding, as far as possible, and if God enlightens, put them all into action, then the mercy of God and the most pure Mother of God, and the great miracle workers, and our blessing from now until the end of the age. And your house, and your children, your property and wealth, which God has sent you with our blessing and for your labors - may they be blessed and full of all blessings forever and ever. Amen.

2. How can Christians believe in the Holy Trinity and the Most Pure Mother of God and in the Cross of Christ, and how to worship the holy heavenly powers, incorporeal, and all honest and holy relics

Every Christian should know how to live divinely in the Orthodox Christian faith, how, firstly, with all his soul and any thought, with all his feelings, with sincere faith, to believe in the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit - in the indivisible Trinity; in the incarnation of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Son of God, believe, call his mother who gave birth to the Mother of God, and worship with faith the cross of Christ, for the Lord brought salvation to these people. Always honor the icon of Christ and his most pure mother and the holy heavenly incorporeal forces and all the saints with faith, as well as themselves, and with love in prayer, say all this and make bows, and call on God for help, and reverently kiss and worship the relics of the saints them.

3. How to partake of the Mysteries of God and believe in the resurrection from the dead and expect the Last Judgment and how to touch any shrine

Believe in the mysteries of God, partake of the body and blood of God with trepidation in the purification and sanctification of the soul and body, for the sake of the remission of sins and for eternal life. Believe in the resurrection from the dead and in eternal life, remember the Last Judgment - and we will all be rewarded for our deeds. When, having prepared ourselves spiritually, we touch them with a clear conscience, kiss the life-giving cross and the holy icons of honest, miraculous and multi-healing relics with a prayer. And after the prayer, cross yourself and kiss them, holding the air in yourself and not smacking your lips. And the Lord deigns to partake of the divine mysteries of Christ, so with a spoon from the priest taking into his mouth carefully, do not smack his lips, but fold his hands at his chest with a cross; and if someone is worthy, dora and prosphyra and everything sanctified must be eaten carefully, with faith and with trepidation, and crumbs must not be dropped on the ground and not bitten with teeth, as others do; bread, breaking it, put it in small pieces in your mouth, chew with your lips and mouth, do not champ; and do not eat prosphyra with seasoning, but only take a sip of water or add church wine to boiled water, and do not mix anything else into it.

Before any food, prosphyra is eaten in churches and at home, never eat prosphyra with kutya or eve, with any other additive, and do not put prosphyra on kutya. And if you kiss with someone in Christ, then, while kissing, holding the air in yourself, do not smack your lips. Think for yourself: we abhor human weakness, the slightly noticeable smell of garlic, as well as the stench of intoxicated, sick and other stench - how disgusting is our stench and the stench from it - that's why you should do all this with caution.

4. how to love the Lord and your loved one with all your soul, have the fear of God and remember the hour of death

So love the Lord your God with all your soul and with all the firmness of your spirit, and strive with all your deeds, habits, disposition to please God. At the same time, love all your loved ones, created in the image of God, that is, every Christian. Always carry the fear of God in your heart and unfeigned love, and remember death. Always observe the will of God and live according to his commandments. The Lord said: “What I find you on, I judge by that,” so that every Christian should be ready to meet the Lord - to live by good deeds, in repentance and purity, always confessing, constantly waiting for the hour of death.

More about the same. If you love the Lord with all your soul, let his fear be in your heart. Be both righteous and just, and live in humility; lowering your eyes to the bottom, stretch your mind to heaven, in prayer to God and in a word be friendly to people; console the saddened, be patient in troubles, be courteous to everyone, generous and merciful, love the poor and hospitable, grieve for sins and rejoice in God, do not be greedy for drunkenness and greedy for gluttony, be meek, quiet, silent, love friends, but not gold, be unhurried, fearful before the king, ready to fulfill his will, polite in answers; and pray more often, prudent seeker of God, do not judge anyone, defender of the disadvantaged, not hypocritical, - a child of the gospel, the son of the resurrection, the heir of eternal life in Christ Jesus, our Lord, to him be glory forever.

5. How to honor a king or a prince and obey them in everything, and submit to any authority, and serve them with truth in everything, big and small, as well as sick and weak - to any person, no matter who he is; and think it all over

Fear the king and serve him faithfully, always pray to God for him. And never speak falsely to him, but with reverence answer him the truth, as to God himself, obeying him in everything. If you serve the earthly king with truth and fear him, you will learn to fear the heavenly king too: this one is temporary, and the heavenly one is eternal, he is an unfeigned judge, he will reward everyone according to his deeds. Also, submit to the princes, giving them due honor, for they were sent by God to punish the evildoers and reward the virtuous. Accept your prince and your authorities, do not think evil against them. For the Apostle Paul says: “All power is from God,” so that whoever opposes authority opposes God’s commandment. And do not think to serve as a deception to the king and prince and any nobleman, the Lord will destroy those who speak lies, and gossips and slanderers are cursed by people. To those who are older than you, honor and bow, honor the middle ones as brothers, comfort the weak and sorrowful with love, and love the younger ones as children - do not be a villain to a single creation of God. Do not desire earthly glory in anything, ask God for eternal bliss, endure any sorrow and burden with gratitude: if they offend, do not take revenge, if they blaspheme, pray, do not repay evil for evil, for slander - slander; do not condemn those who sin, remember your sins, take care of them first of all; reject the advice of evil people, be jealous of those who live in truth, take their deeds into your heart, and do the same yourself.

You should also know how to honor your children's spiritual fathers. Look for a spiritual father, kind, God-loving and prudent, prudent and firm in faith, who will set an example, and not a drunkard indulgence, not a lover of money, not angry. One should honor and obey him in everything, and repent before him with tears, confessing one's sins without shame and without fear, and fulfilling his instructions and observing penance according to one's sins. Call him to your house often, and even come to him for confession in all conscience, listen to his teachings with gratitude, and obey him in everything, and honor him, and strike him low with your forehead: he is our teacher and mentor. And to stay before him with fear and gratitude, to go to him and give him offerings from your fruits of labor, if possible. Consult with him more often about a useful life in order to refrain from all sorts of sins. How can a husband instruct and love his wife and children and servants, how can a wife obey her husband; consult with him every day about everything. But one should confess one's sins before the spiritual father and reveal all one's sins, and submit to him in everything: for they take care of our souls and will give an answer for us on the day of the Last Judgment; and one should neither scold them, nor condemn, nor reproach, but if they begin to ask for someone, listen to this, and punish the guilty, looking at the fault, but first discussing everything.

Always come to the priests and render due honors to them, ask them for blessings and spiritual guidance, and, falling at their feet, obey them in everything pleasing to God. Treat priests and monks with trust and love, submit and obey them in everything, receiving the salvation of your soul from them. In difficult matters, do not hesitate to ask their advice about both spiritual and everything sinful. And if any suffering befalls you, mental or bodily, or sickness, or some kind of illness, whether a fire, a flood, theft and robbery, or royal disgrace, or the wrath of the Lord, or slander, slander, or immeasurable losses and other inescapable sorrow, At the same time, do not fall into despair, remember your previous sins that brought grief to God or people, and shed sincere tears before the merciful sovereign and the Most Pure Mother of God, and before all the saints; turning to a quiet haven, to these spiritual mentors, confess your sins and sorrow - in tenderness and with tears, in contrition of heart, and they will heal you in all troubles, giving relief to your soul. And if the priests command anything, do it all, repenting of sins, for they are servants and supplicants to the heavenly king, the Lord has given them the boldness to ask for useful and good things for souls and for our bodies, and for the forgiveness of sins, and for eternal life .

8. How can Christians heal from illnesses and from all kinds of suffering - both kings and princes, and all kinds of ranks to people. and priests, and monks, and all Christians

If God sends an illness or some kind of suffering on someone, one should be healed by God's mercy and prayer and tears, fasting, giving to the poor and sincere repentance, with gratitude and forgiveness, with mercy and unfeigned love for all. If you offended someone with something, you need to ask for forgiveness purely and not offend in the future. And at the same time, raise the spiritual fathers and all priests and monks to pray to God, and sing prayers, and sanctify water with an honest life-giving cross and from holy relics and from miraculous images, and be sanctified with oil; walking in the holy miraculous places according to a vow, pray with all a clear conscience, and thereby receive healing from God for a variety of ailments. And avoid all sins and continue to do no harm to anyone. To observe the orders of the spiritual fathers and to correct penances, and thereby cleanse oneself from sin, heal mental and bodily illnesses, appealing to God's mercy. Every Christian is obliged to rid himself of all ailments, mental and bodily, from mental and painful suffering, to live according to the commandment of the Lord, according to patristic tradition and according to Christian law (as it is written at the beginning of this book, from the first chapter, the first fifteen chapters and all other chapters of the book Also); read the twenty-ninth chapter: think about them and observe everything - then a person will please God, and save his soul, and overcome sin, and receive health, mental and bodily, and inherit eternal blessings.

Who, in his insolence and the fear of God, does not have and does not do the will of God, does not follow the law of Christian fatherly tradition, does not think about the church of God and about church singing, and about cell rules, and about prayer, and about praising God, does not think, eats and drinks without restraint until overeating and drunkenness at inopportune times, and does not observe the rules of the hostel: on Sundays and Wednesdays and Fridays, on holidays and Great Lent and Fasting of the Assumption, fornicates without abstinence at inopportune times, violating nature and law, or those from wives they commit fornication or commit sodomy sins and do all sorts of abominations and all sorts of godless deeds: fornication, debauchery, foul language and slander, demonic songs, dancing and jumping, playing tambourines, trumpets, nozzles, they bring in bears and birds and hunting dogs and arrange horse races, - everything that is pleasing to demons, all obscenity and arrogance, and besides, sorcery and sorcery, and witchcraft, astrology, black books, reading renounced books, almanacs, fortune-telling books, six-winged, they believe in thunderbolts and axes, in the mustache and in the uterus, into magic stones and bones, and into all sorts of other intrigues of demons. If someone feeds someone with sorcery and potion, roots-herbs, to death or to insanity, or demonic words, obsession and slander, leads someone to any vice, and especially to adultery, or if someone swears falsely by the name of God or slanders a friend, – immediately read the twenty-eighth chapter. With such deeds, in such customs-mores, pride, hatred, rancor, anger, hostility, resentment, lies, theft, cursing, slander, foul language, sorcery and sorcery, mockery, blasphemy, gluttony and immeasurable drunkenness are born in people - with dawn until late, and all kinds of evil deeds, and gross fornication, and any debauchery. And the good philanthropist God, not accepting such evil morals of people and customs, and all kinds of unsimilar deeds, like a child-loving father, saves us all through suffering and leads to salvation, instructing, punishes for our many sins, but does not put a quick death, does not want the death of a sinner, but waits for repentance so that a person can improve and live. If they do not correct themselves, do not repent of bad deeds, God brings upon us according to our sins when there is famine, when there is pestilence, or even fires, or even a flood, or even captivity and death at the hands of the pagans, and cities are devastated, destruction of God's churches and every holy thing, and plunder of all property, and slander of friends. Sometimes ruin, merciless execution and shameful death befall you through royal anger, sometimes from robbers - murder and robbery, and from thieves - theft, and from judges - both bribe and expense. That lack of rain - and then rains without end, unsuccessful years - and unsuitable winter, and severe frosts, and barren lands, and all kinds of living creatures - cattle death and beast, and birds, and fish, and poverty of all kinds of bread; and then suddenly the loss of parents and wife and children from heavy and quick and sudden deaths after severe and bitter suffering in illnesses and an evil death. For many righteous people truly serve God, according to the commandments of the Lord they live among us sinners, but in this world God executes them equally with sinners, so that after death they can be honored with the most shining crowns from the Lord, but for us, sinners, torment is worse, - after all, even the righteous suffer grievous sufferings for our iniquity. So really, in all these troubles, we won’t correct ourselves, won’t learn anything and won’t come to repentance, won’t we wake up, won’t we be afraid, seeing such a punishment from God’s righteous wrath for our endless sins? And again, the Lord, instructing us and guiding us to salvation, tempting us, like the righteous long-suffering Job, sends us suffering and illness, and serious illnesses, from the evil spirits torment, fiery body, aching bones, swelling and swelling on all members, constipation in both passages , and a kidney stone, and a keel, and secret members of putrefaction, dropsy and deafness, blindness and dumbness, pain in the stomach and terrible vomiting, and down both passages and blood and pus, and consumption, and cough, and pain in the head and toothache, and a hernia, and gout, boils and rashes, weakness and trembling, nodules and buboes, and a scab, and a hump, a neck, twisted legs and arms, and strabismus, and all sorts of other serious ailments - all the punishment of God's wrath. And now - we have forgotten all our sins, we have not repented, we do not want to either correct ourselves or be afraid of anything, nothing will teach us!

And although we see God’s punishment in all this and suffer from serious illnesses for many of our sins, for forgetting God who created us, not asking God for mercy or forgiveness, what evil are we doing, turning to unclean demons , from which we already renounced at holy baptism, as well as from their deeds, and we invite sorcerers, magicians and magicians, sorcerers and healers of all kinds with their roots, from whom we expect soulful and temporary help, and by this we prepare ourselves into the hands of the devil, in hellish abyss forever tormented. O foolish people! Alas for your foolishness, we do not recognize our sins, for which God executes and torments us, and we do not repent of them, we do not avoid vices and obscene deeds, we do not think about the eternal, but we dream of the perishable and temporary. I pray - and again I pray: reject all vices and soulful deeds, let us sincerely cleanse ourselves with repentance, and may the merciful Lord have mercy on us in sins, give health to the body, and salvation to souls, and not deprive us of eternal blessings. And if one of us gratefully endures in this world in various illnesses, in all kinds of suffering, in order to be cleansed from the sins of his kingdom for the sake of heaven, he will not only receive forgiveness for sins, but will also be the heir to eternal blessings. For it is written in the holy Apostle: "We have to enter the kingdom of heaven through many sufferings." The Holy Gospel says: “The path is narrow and sorrowful, leading to eternal life, but broad and spacious, leading to destruction.” And the Lord also said: “It is difficult to reach the kingdom of heaven, and only those who make an effort will receive it.”

Let us remember the holy men, their sufferings for God's sake, a variety of ailments and illnesses, and the good patience of those who did not call to themselves either sorcerers, or magicians, or sorcerers, or herbalists, or any demonic healers, but placed all their hope in God, gratefully enduring cleansing for one's sins and for the sake of enjoying eternal blessings, like the long-suffering Monk Job or the poor Lazarus, who lay before the gates of the rich in manure, devoured by pus and worms, and now rests in the bosom of Abraham; and like Simeon the Stylite, who himself rotted his body, foaming with worms; and many righteous people who pleased God, suffering from all sorts of illnesses and various ailments, gratefully endured all salvations for the sake of their souls and for the sake of eternal life, and for those sufferings they entered the kingdom of heaven, many - both rich and poor - of the Christian race, people of all ranks - and princely, and boyar, and priests, and monks - suffering in endless illnesses and ailments, were obsessed with all kinds of sorrows, and even endured insults for the sake of God, and asked God for mercy and hoped for his help.

And then the merciful God pours out endless mercy on His servants and grants healing, and forgives sins, and saves from suffering: those with the help of life-giving crosses and miraculous icons, holy images of Christ and the Mother of God, Archangel and all saints, and through holy relics and anointing with oil and the consecration of the oil, and through prayers in the service, which take place at Vespers in God's holy churches and monasteries, and in miraculous places, and at home, and on the way, and on the waters - everywhere calling with faith to the Lord God, the Most Pure Mother of God, to bestow their saints forgiveness, health of body and soul, salvation.

Many died in ailments and serious illnesses, in various sufferings, having been cleansed from sins by them, they were honored with eternal life. Let us comprehend the meaning of this exactly, let us imitate their life and their patience, in life competing with the holy fathers, prophets and apostles, saints and martyrs, saints and holy fools for Christ's sake, with holy wives, Orthodox tsars and princes, priests and monks - with all Christians who have lived a charitable age.

Let us comprehend to the end how in this life they endured the sufferings of Christ for the sake of - those by fasting and prayers and long-suffering, thirst and hunger, nakedness in frost or in the heat of the sun, reproach and spitting, all sorts of reproaches, beatings and torment from wicked kings with various torments for the sake of Christ ; they were executed, burned in fire, animals devoured them, slaughtered them with stones, drowned them in waters, in caves, in deserts and in earthly abysses; “And who will number them?” - as the Holy Scripture says.

And for such terrible sufferings, for their torments, what a reward they received from Christ in this life and in eternal life! The enjoyment of eternal blessings, which the eye has not seen, the ear has not heard, and has not given to the heart of man - this is what God will prepare for those who love him. And how they are glorified today, how the Church of God glorifies them! We ourselves only pray to these saints, we call on their help with a request to pray before God for us, and we receive healing from their miraculous images and revered relics. Let us follow such saints to life and suffering gratefully and meekly, and as a reward we will receive a similar grace from God.

[About sorcery and sorcerers]

Rule 61 of the 6th Council. And for those who have succumbed to sorcery or the so-called wise men (or others of the same kind who can predict), if anyone wants to reveal the unknown according to the first commandment received from the holy fathers, let him follow the rule of the canon: for six years they are deprived of communion, as are those who lead bears or some other animal for the amusement of the crowd and for earning money, who predict fate at birth and lineage from the stars, and with such speeches mislead the people. Fortune-telling by the clouds, sorcerers, makers of amulets and magicians, who are busy with this and do not retreat from these pernicious pagan deeds - we everywhere demand that they be driven out of the church, as the law commands the priest. "What does light have in common with darkness?" - as the apostle said, and how is the church of God combined with pagan idols? what is the partnership of the faithful with the unbelievers? what is the agreement between Christ and the devil?

Interpretation. Those who follow pernicious witchcraft go to sorcerers and sorcerers or invite them to their house, desiring to learn something inexpressible through them, just like those who feed and keep bears or some kind of dogs or birds of prey for hunting or entertainment and for deception crowds, or they believe in fate and genealogies, that is, in women in childbirth, and in witchcraft by the stars and fortune telling by the clouds running - all who do this, the cathedral ordered to excommunicate for six years from communion, let them stand with catechumens for four years, and the rest two years with the faithful, and thus they will be vouchsafed divine gifts. If, however, they do not correct themselves, and after excommunication and do not leave pagan deceit, then from the church - everywhere and always - let them be expelled. God-bearing fathers and church teachers spoke about sorcerers and sorcerers, and most of all John Chrysostom says: those who practice magic and perform witchcraft, even if they utter the name of the Holy Trinity, even if they create the sign of the holy cross of Christ, it is still appropriate for them avoid and turn away from sneeze.

On the 24th Rule of the Council of Ancyra. Those who practice magic, who follow the customs of the pagans, and those who bring sorcerers into their homes to perform witchcraft and to cleanse from poisoning, are deprived of communion, according to the rules, for five years in a certain order: three years to stay inside, and outside the church two years, - only prayers without prosvir and without communion.

Interpretation. If someone trusts the magi, sorcerers or herbalists, or others like them, and calls them to his house to try his luck, and they clarify to him what he wants, or during witchcraft, wanting to know the mysterious, he tells fortunes on the water in order to heal with evil evil - let him stand with the catechumens for three years, and with the faithful for two years, partaking with them only by prayer, but only after the expiration of five years will he partake of the holy mysteries.

61 rules of the Sixth Council, which took place in the palace Trull. For six years he does not order such people to partake of the mysteries, that is, not to commune.

The sixth council in Constantinople, in the palace of Trulla, the 11th canon. There should be no fellowship between Christians and Jews. Therefore, if someone is found who eats their unleavened bread or invites their doctor for his healing, or who washes with them in the bath, or otherwise somehow communicates with them, if he is from the clergy, he will be expelled from the church, if he is a layman, excommunicated .

From Basil the Great rule 72. Having trusted the magi or similar people who kill time, let it become forbidden.

Interpretation. Let him who went to study harmful wisdom to the magicians, sorcerers or sorcerers, be punished as a deliberate murderer; but he who believes the Magi or brings them into his house for treatment from poisoning or foretelling the future - let him be punished for six years, as commanded by the 61st canon of the Sixth Ecumenical Council, which was in Constantinople, in the palace Trull, and 83 canon in the same message of Basil the Great.

9. How to visit anyone in suffering in monasteries, hospitals and dungeons

In the monastery and in the hospital, in seclusion and in the dungeon of prisoners, visit alms, according to the strength of your ability, give what they ask; look into trouble and suffering, into all their needs, and help, as you can, and all. who suffers in poverty and in need, do not despise the poor, invite him into your house and bring him into your house. ”, give drink, feed, warm, with love and with a clear conscience, welcome; through their prayers you will receive from God mercy and forgiveness of sins. Remember the parents of your dead by offering to the church of God for a memorial service and services, and arrange a memorial service for them at home, and give alms to the poor: then God will not forget you either.

10. How to come with gifts to the churches of God and monasteries

Always come to the church of God with faith, not in anger and without envy, without any enmity, but always with humble wisdom, meekness and purity of body, and with an offering: with a candle and with prosvir, with incense and incense, with eve and with kutya, and with alms, - and for health, and for peace, and for the holidays you will also go to monasteries - also with alms and with offerings. When you bring your gift to the altar, remember the gospel word: “If your brother has something against you, then leave your gift before the altar, and go and make peace first with your brother,” and only then offer your gift to God from your righteous good : from unrighteous acquisition, donation is unacceptable. It was said to the rich: “It is better not to rob than to give alms from the unjustly obtained.” Return what you received unrighteously to the offended by you - this is worthy of alms. God is pleased with the gift of righteous gain, of good deeds.

11. How to decorate your house with holy images and keep your home clean

Every Christian needs in his house, in all rooms, according to seniority, to hang holy and honest images on the walls, painted on icons, decorating them, and put lamps in which candles are lit during prayer before the holy images, and after the service they are extinguished, closed a curtain from dirt and dust, strictly for the sake of order and for safety. You should constantly brush them with a clean wing and wipe them with a soft sponge, and always keep this room clean. To touch the holy images only with a clear conscience, during the service, while singing and praying, light candles and incense with fragrant incense and incense. And the images of the saints are arranged in order of seniority, first, as already mentioned, especially revered. In prayers and vigils, and in bows, and in every praise of God, one must always give them honor - with tears and weeping, and with a sorrowful heart, confessing their sins, asking for forgiveness of sins.

12. How can a husband and wife and household members in their house pray to God

Every day in the evening, a husband with his wife and with children, and with household members, if anyone knows the letter - sing Vespers, Companion, in silence with attention, coming humbly with prayer, with bows, singing in accordance and distinctly, after the service do not drink, do not eat and do not never talk. Yes, and everything has its own rules. Going to bed, each Christian puts three earthly bows before the icon, but at midnight, getting up secretly, with tears it is good to pray to God, as much as you can, about your sins, and in the morning, getting up - also; and everyone acts according to their strength and desire, and pregnant women bow with a waist bow. Every Christian should pray for his sins and for the remission of sins, for the health of the king and queen, and their children, and his brothers, and his boyars, and for the Christ-loving army, for help against enemies, for the release of captives, and for saints, priests and monks, and about spiritual fathers, and about the sick, about those imprisoned, and for all Christians. A wife, on the other hand, needs to pray for her sins - for her husband, and for children, and for household members, and for relatives, and for spiritual fathers. And in the morning, rising, also pray to God, sing the morning service and the hours, and a prayer service with prayer, but in silence, with humility, sing harmoniously and listen with attention, and bow to the images. And if there is no one to sing, then pray more in the evening and in the morning. Husbands, on the other hand, must not miss a day of church singing: neither vespers, nor matins, nor Mass, but wives and household members - as it turns out, as they decide: on Sunday and on holidays, and on holy holidays.

13. How can a husband and wife pray in church, stay clean and avoid all evil

In the church, in the service, stand tremblingly and pray in silence. At home, always sing the evening service, midnight office and hours. And whoever adds church service for the sake of his salvation, this is in his will, for then the reward is greater from God. And wives go to the church of God as they can - both at will and in consultation with their husbands. In church, she should not talk to anyone, stand silently, listen to singing with attention and read the Holy Scriptures, not looking anywhere, not leaning against a wall or a pillar, and not standing with a staff, not stepping from foot to foot; stand with your hands folded crosswise on your chest, unshakably and firmly, lowering your bodily eyes down, and with your heart - to God; pray to God with fear and trembling, with sighs and tears. Do not leave the church until the end of the service, but come to its very beginning. On Sundays and on the feasts of the Lord, on Wednesdays and Fridays, on Holy Great Lent and on the Theotokos, to remain in purity. But gluttony and drunkenness, and empty conversations, obscene laughter, always beware. From theft and fornication, from lies, slander, from envy and everything unjustly acquired: from usury, from feeding, from bribery and from any other craftiness, renounce and not be angry with anyone, do not remember evil, but robbery and robbery and violence of any and never do unrighteous judgment. From early food (and drink) and from late - after the evening service - to refrain, but if you drink and eat, then to the glory of God and only at the permitted time; small children and workers to feed at the discretion of the owners.

Do you not know that the unrighteous will not enter the kingdom of God? – as the apostle Paul said: “If someone is known as a fornicator, or a covetous person, or an idolater, or a mocker, or a drunkard, or a robber, do not eat with such people”? And he also said: “Do not be flattered: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor defilers, nor masturbators, nor sodomists, nor covetous men, nor thieves, nor drunkards, nor offenders, nor robbers will enter the kingdom of God.” every Christian must guard against all evil.

A Christian should always keep in his hands - a rosary, and the Jesus Prayer - tirelessly on his lips; and in church and at home, and at the market - you go, whether you stand, whether you sit, and in every place, according to the words of the prophet David: “In every place, bless the Lord, my soul!” Make a prayer like this: “Lord, Jesus Christ, son of God! have mercy on me, a sinner," and say so six hundred times, and the seventh hundred - to the most pure Mother of God: "My Lady, most holy Mother of God, have mercy on me, a sinner!" - and again return to the beginning, and say so constantly. If someone, using it, easily says this prayer, as if breathing through his nostrils, then after the first year the son of God - Christ will enter into him, after the second - the Holy Spirit will enter into him, and after the third - the Father will cling to him, and, having entered into him, the Holy Trinity will dwell in him, the prayer will swallow the heart and the heart will swallow the prayer, and he will cry out that prayer day and night, and he will be delivered from the enemy's networks according to the word of Christ Jesus, our Lord - glory to him forever, amen.

And the most pure Theotokos with all heavenly powers and with all the saints will become the protector from the devilish wiles of everyone in this life and in the future - for those who pray with faith and follow God's commandments.

How to be baptized and bow

Hierarchs - and priests and monks - kings and princes, and all Christians should bow to the image of the Savior and the life-giving cross, and the Most Pure Mother of God, and the holy powers of heaven and all the saints, and sacred vessels, and holy revered relics in this way: connect the fingers of the right hand - close the first extreme and the bottom two ends, - this marks the Holy Trinity; straighten the middle finger, slightly tilting, and the next one higher, straightening - they signify two hypostases: divine and human. And cross yourself in front like this: first put your hand on your forehead, then on your chest, then on your right shoulder and, finally, on your left - this is how the cross of Christ is presented in meaning. Then bow your head to the waist, but a big bow - head to the ground. Prayers and supplications are on the lips, and in the heart there is tenderness, and in all your members there is repentance for sins, tears flow from the eyes and from the soul - sigh. With your mouth - to glorify and sing to God, with your mind and heart and breath to pray for good, to be baptized with your hand, and with your body to bow to the ground or to your belt - and always do just that. Bishops and priests, in the same way, baptize a Christian asking their blessing with their hands.

About the cross of Christ as a sign, about worshiping him in the "Paterik" they write authentically; reading everything there, you will comprehend the power of the cross of Christ.

From Theodoret. Bless and be baptized with your hand like this: hold three fingers together on a level in the image of the Trinity - God the Father, God the Son, God the Holy Spirit; not three gods, but one God in the Trinity, the names differ, but the deity is one: the Father is not born. The Son is begotten, not created, but the Holy Spirit is neither begotten nor created - descends - three in one deity. One power - one deity and honor, one bow from all creation, from angels and from people. This is the foundation of those three fingers. Two fingers must be held obliquely, without bending, they signify the two natures of Christ, divine and human: God according to divinity, and man according to incarnation, while both of them together are perfection. The upper finger marks the deity, and the lower one - humanity, because, descending from the highest, he saved the lower ones. He also explains the bringing together of the fingers: for, having bowed the heavens, he came down for our salvation. So it is necessary to be baptized and bless, as established by the holy fathers.

From Athanasius and Peter of Damascus, about the same. Since demons and various ailments are cast out without any payment and without labor by the inscription of the honest and life-giving cross, who can glorify him too much? The holy fathers left us this sign for disputes with unfaithful heretics: two fingers (but on one hand) reveal Christ our God in two natures, but in one being knowable. The right hand marks his ineffable power and the sitting at the right hand of the Father, and the descent from above, from heaven to us, reveals it, and also indicates to us that we should drive away enemies from the right side to the left, for the Lord conquered the devil with his invincible power: Shuytsa, in essence, and invisible and fragile.

14. How to invite priests and monks to your house for prayer

And on other holidays, according to your covenant, or for the sake of infirmity, or if you sanctify someone with oil, call the priests to your house, as often as you can, and perform the service on every occasion; then they pray for the tsar and the grand prince (name), the autocrat of all Russia and for his queen the grand duchess (name), and for their noble children, and for his brothers and for the boyars, and for all the Christ-loving army, and for victory over enemies , and about the release of the captives, about the saints and about all the priests and monks - about every request, and for all Christians, and for the owners of the house - husband and wife, and for children and household members, and about everything that they need, if in this need.

And the water is blessed with a life-giving cross and from miraculous images or from revered holy relics, and oil is consecrated for the sick for health and healing. But if it is necessary to consecrate the oil over the sick in the house, let them call seven priests or more, and as many deacons as they can. They consecrate the oil and do everything according to the charter, and the deacon or the priest censes in all the rooms, and they sprinkle it with holy water, and the eldest of them overshadows with an honest cross, and all together in this house glorify God. And after the service, tables are set, priests and monks drink and eat, and everyone who comes will immediately caress and bestow the poor in every possible way, and they will return to their homes, glorifying God. The deceased parents should also be commemorated; in the holy churches of God, in the monasteries, sing panikhidas and serve the liturgy, and feed the brethren at the meal for repose and health, and invite and feed, console and give alms to your house.

Water must be blessed on the sixth of January and the first of August - always with one life-giving cross. Three times it is immersed in bowls by a bishop or priest, saying the troparion “Save, O Lord, your people” three times, and on Epiphany - the troparion: “When You were baptized in Yerdan, Lord” - also three times, and on the platter lie holy crosses and icons and miraculous revered relics. And taking the cross out of the bowl, the priest holds it over the dish, and water flows from the cross onto this shrine. After immersing the cross and consecrating the water, he anoints with a sponge, dipping the revered crosses and holy icons and miraculous relics into the consecrated water, as many as there are in the holy temple or in the house, pronouncing the troparia to each saint, anointing his holy icon. And after that, you should squeeze the sponge into the already consecrated water and again anoint other shrines with it as well. And with the same holy water, sprinkle the altar and the entire holy temple crosswise, and in the house also sprinkle everyone in the rooms, and all the people. And those who deserve faith anoint themselves with this water and drink it for healing and cleansing of souls and bodies, and for the remission of sins and eternal life.

15. How to treat gratefully coming to your house with family members

Before the start of the meal, first of all, the priests praise the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, then the virgin Mother of God and take out the consecrated bread, and at the end of the meal, the consecrated bread is put out, and after praying, they eat as they should and drink the consecrated cup of the Most Pure Theotokos. Then let them talk about health and repose. And if they eat in reverent silence or in spiritual conversation, then angels invisibly stand before them and write down good deeds, and then food and drink are sweet. If, however, they begin to blaspheme food and drink, what they eat immediately turns into garbage. And if, at the same time, rude and shameless speeches sound, obscene disgrace, laughter, various amusements, or playing the harp and all kinds of music, dancing and clapping hands, and jumping, all kinds of games and songs of demons, then, as if smoke drives away bees, they will depart and angels of God from this meal and obscene conversation. And the demons will rejoice and swoop in, having seized their hour, then everything that they want is done: they commit atrocities while playing dice and chess, they amuse themselves with all sorts of demonic games, the gift of God is food and drink, and the fruits of the earth are thrown to ridicule, spilled, they beat each other, douse each other, desecrating God's gift in every possible way, and the demons record these deeds, carry them to Satan, and together they rejoice at the death of Christians. But all such deeds will appear on the Day of Judgment: oh, woe to those who do such things! When the Jews sat down in the wilderness to eat and drink, and having overfed and drunk, began to have fun and commit fornication, then the earth swallowed them up - twenty thousand and three thousand. Oh, be afraid of this, people, and do the will of God as it is written in the law; From such evil excesses, Lord, save every Christian, Eat and drink for the glory of God, do not overeat, do not get drunk, do not make empty speeches.

When you put food and drink and all kinds of dishes in front of someone, or they put them in front of you, you should not blaspheme, saying: "this is rotten" or "sour" or "fresh" or "salty" or "bitter" or “rotten”, or “raw”, or “overcooked”, or some other censure to express, but it is fitting for the gift of God - any food and drink - to praise and eat with gratitude, then God also gives the food a fragrance and turns it into sweetness . And if some food and drink are no good, punish the household, the one who cooked, so that this would not happen in advance.

From the Gospel. When they call you to the feast. do not sit in a place of honor, suddenly one of the invitees will be more respectable than you, and the owner will come up to you and say: “Give him a seat!” - and then you will have to go to the last place with shame. But if you are invited, sit down when you enter the last place, and when the one who invited you comes and says to you: “Friend, sit higher!” - then the rest of the guests will honor you. So everyone who ascends will humble himself, and the humble will ascend.

And add to this: when you are invited to a feast, do not get drunk to the point of terrible intoxication and do not sit up late, because in much drinking and in long sitting, strife and strife and fight are born, and even bloodshed. And you, if you are here, even if you do not scold and do not bully, you will not be the last in that battle and fight, but the first: after all, you sit for a long time, waiting for this scolding. And the owner with this is a reproach to you: you don’t go to sleep with yourself, and his household doesn’t have peace and time for other guests. If you get drunk drunk, but you don’t go to bed - you don’t go, then you fall asleep where you drank, you will be left unattended, because there are many guests, you are not alone. And in this drinking and neglect of yours, you will dirty your clothes, and you will lose your cap or hat. If there was money in the purse or in the purse, they would pull it out, and take the knives away - and now the owner, from whom he drank, and that’s a problem for you, and even more so for you: he himself was spent, and shame from people, they will say: there , where he drank, and fell asleep here, who will look after him, if everyone is drunk? You see for yourself what a shame and reproach and damage to you from excessive drunkenness.

If you leave or leave, but still drink decently, then you will fall asleep along the way, you won’t get to the house, and then you will suffer even more than before: they will take off all your clothes and everything, they will take away everything that you have with you, they won’t even leave a shirt. So, if you don’t sober up and get drunk to the end, I will say this: you will deprive the body of the soul. Drunk, many die from wine and freeze on the way. I do not say: you should not drink, this is not necessary; but I say: do not get drunk drunk. I do not blame the gift of God, but I blame those who drink without restraint. As the Apostle Paul writes to Timothy: “Drink little wine, only for the sake of the stomach and frequent illnesses,” but he wrote to us: “Drink little wine for the sake of joy, and not for drunkenness: drunkards will not inherit the kingdom of God.” Many people are deprived of drunkenness and earthly wealth. If someone immeasurably adheres to drink, the foolish will praise him, but then they will also condemn him for having foolishly squandered his wealth. As the apostle said: “Do not get drunk with wine, there is no salvation in it, but get drunk with the praise of God,” and I will say this: get drunk with prayer, and fasting, and almsgiving, and going to church with a clear conscience. God approves of them, such will receive from him a reward in his kingdom. To revel in wine is the death of the soul and body, and the destruction of one’s wealth. Along with their earthly possessions, drunkards are also deprived of their heavenly possessions, for they drink not for God's sake, but for drunkenness. And only the demons rejoice, to which the drunkard has a path ahead, if he does not have time to repent. So do you see, O man, what a disgrace and what a reproach for this from God and from his saints? The apostle ranks the drunkard, like any sinner, among those objectionable to God, equal in fate to demons, if he does not purify his soul by sincere repentance. So let there be all Christians, living with God in the Orthodox faith, together with our Lord Jesus Christ and with his saints, glorifying the Holy Trinity - the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, amen.

But back to the previous one, what we are talking about. And the owner of the house (or his servants) must give everyone food and drink, either at the table, or send it to another house, dividing according to dignity and rank, and according to custom. Dishes are sent from the big table, but not from the rest; for love and faithful service - let them all be clothed as it should be, and ask for forgiveness.

And from the table or from the meal, food and drink are secretly taken out or sent away, without permission and without blessing - sacrilege and arbitrariness, such people are always condemned.

When they put before you various dishes and drinks, but if someone is more noble than you among those invited, do not start eating before him; but if you are the honored guest, then eat the offered food first. Some God-lovers have plenty of food and drink, and everything that remains untouched, they remove, then it will still be useful - send or give. If someone, insensitive and inexperienced, not learned and ignorant, without reasoning all the dishes in a row mends, but being satisfied and not wanting to eat, not caring about preserving the dishes, they will scold and ridicule him, he is dishonored before God and people.

If you happen to greet visiting people, whether merchants, or foreigners, other guests, whether invited. Whether given by God: rich or poor, priests or monks, then the owner and mistress should be friendly and give due honor according to the rank and dignity of each person. With love and gratitude, honor each of them with an affectionate word, talk with everyone and greet with a kind word, eat and drink, or put it on the table, or give it from your hands with good greetings, and otherwise send something, but each with something then highlight and please everyone. If some of them are waiting in the hallway or sitting in the yard, feed and drink those and, sitting at the table, do not forget to send them food and drink. If the owner has a son or a faithful servant, let him look everywhere and honor everyone and greet with a kind word, and would not scold, dishonor, disgrace, ridicule, condemn anyone, so that neither the owner, nor the mistress, nor their children, nor their servants he condemned.

And if the guests or guests quarrel among themselves - carefully appease them, and whoever is already out of his mind - carefully escort him to his court and save him from any fight along the way; gratefully and gratefully, having fed and drunk, with honor and sent - this is both a gift to God, and good people - in honor. Treat the poor mercifully and sincerely - from that you will receive a reward from God, and good glory from people.

When you treat or commemorate your parents in the monastery, do exactly the same: feed and drink and distribute alms according to the strength of your ability, for health and peace. If someone first feeds, gives drink and bestows, but then dishonors and scolds, condemns and ridicules, or slanders in absentia, or bypasses the place, or, without feeding and barking, also strikes, and then drives him out of the yard, or the servants dishonor him someone - then such a table or a feast for the joy of demons, and to God in anger, and among people there is shame and rage, and enmity, and for the offended - shame and insult. To such a reckless master and mistress and their servants - a sin from God, hostility and reproach from people, and a curse and censure from poor people. If you can’t feed someone, explain calmly, without barking or beating, and without dishonoring, politely let go, refusing. And whoever leaves the yard, complaining about the master’s inattention, so the courteous servant will politely say to the guest: “Do not be angry, father, our hosts have many guests, they did not have time to regale you,” then they are the first to hit you with their forehead so that you are not angry with them . And at the end of the feast, the servant should tell the owner about the guest who has left, and if the guest is needed, then immediately tell the master, and he will do as he wants.

The empress’s wife has good and all sorts of guests, no matter what happens to her, she should do the same with them, as it is written in this chapter. And her children and servants also.

And about those sitting at the meal, the vision of St. Niphon is set forth in the Prologue, and in the Pandects of Antiochus, chapter three is about food.

16. How can a husband and wife consult on what to punish the housekeeper about tableware, about the kitchen and about the bakery

Every day and every evening, having corrected spiritual duties, and in the morning, getting up at the bell ringing and after prayer, the husband and wife consult about household chores, and who has what duty and who is in charge of what business, to punish all those when and what to eat and drink to prepare for the guests and for yourself. And even the housekeeper, according to the master's word, will order what to buy at the expense, and when, having bought the appointed, they bring it, measure everything and carefully examine it. And to the one who buys all supplies for household expenses, for food, for fish and meat and for all kinds of seasoning, give money for a week or a month, and when he spends the money and gives an account of them to the master, he will take it again. So everything is visible: both grubs, and expenses, and his service. To the cook, send what should be cooked, and to the baker, and for other preparations, send the goods as well. And the key keeper would always keep in mind what needs to be said to the owner. And in the kitchen to bake and cook meat and fish dishes according to the bill, as the lord commands, let them bake and cook as many dishes, and take everything ready from the cook according to the bill. Put all sorts of dishes on the table according to the master’s order, looking at the guests, and also give bread and all food according to the account and take it according to the account, and if any of the stew and cooking of any from the table remains untouched and half-eaten, sort out the untouched dishes, and started - separately, both meat and fish, and put everything in a clean, strong dish and cover, and overlay with ice. Opened dishes and various leftovers should be given to be eaten, where anything will fit, and untouched should be kept for the owner and hostess and for guests. Serve drinks at the table according to the order, judging by the guests, or without guests, and only braga and kvass for the lady. As for tableware: plates, brothers, ladles, vinegar bowls, pepper shakers, pickles, salt shakers, setters, dishes, spoons, tablecloths and bedspreads, everything would always be clean and ready on the table or in setters. And the rooms would have been swept, and the chambers, but tidied up, and the images on the wall would have been hung in order, as expected, and the tables and benches would have been washed and wiped, and the carpets were spread on the benches. And vinegar, cucumber pickle, lemon juice, and plum pickle would be filtered through a sieve, while cucumbers, lemons, and plums would be peeled and sorted out, and the table would be clean and tidy. And dried fish and any dried fish, and various jelly, meat and lean, and caviar, and cabbage - are cleaned and laid out in dishes, already cooked before eating. And the drinks would all be clean, filtered through sieves. And the housekeepers and cooks, and bakers, and cooks would still eat before the table and drink some weak drinks, then they cook calmly. And in a dress they would dress up in what the owner orders, they would be prepared cleanly, and in any cooking that was entrusted to the owner, they would keep themselves clean and tidy. And all the dishes and all the tackle at the keykeeper and everyone in the kitchen would be washed and cleaned and in complete safety, and the hostess and her servants as well. Bring food and drinks to the table, looking around so that the dishes in which you carry are clean and the bottom is wiped, and the food and drinks are also clean, without garbage and without mold and without burning; put, having examined, and having put food or drinks, then do not cough, do not spit, do not blow your nose, but stepping aside, clean your nose and clear your throat, or spit, turning away and rubbing it with your foot; that's fine for any person.

17. Order to the housekeeper in case of a feast

If the feast is to be big, then everywhere you can observe yourself - in the kitchen, in the cutting room and in the bakery. And to serve dishes on the tables - to put a skilled person, but at the supplier, at the drinks and at the utensils, an experienced one is also needed so that everything is in order. And serve drinks to the table according to the master's instructions, who knows what, on the side, without permission, do not give anyone. And at the table, and when the feast is over, examine and count, and tidy up silver and pewter and copper utensils, mugs and ladles, and brothers, and brothers with a lid, and dishes - where and for what someone will be sent and who will carry, on volume from that and demand; Yes, so that nothing is stolen on the side, follow everything strictly. Then a reliable person is also needed in the yard to watch everything and guard all sorts of household things: they wouldn’t steal anything, and even protect a drunken guest so that he doesn’t lose anything and doesn’t break, and doesn’t swear with anyone. And the servants of the guests, who are in the yard with the horses at the sleigh and at the saddles, should also be looked after, so that they do not quarrel among themselves, do not rob each other, they would not vilify the guests, and they would not steal or spoil anything at home - for to look after everyone, to appease everything; and who does not obey - report to the owner. And the man who was put in the yard should not drink anything at that time, do not go anywhere, and here in the yard, and in the cellars, and in the bakery, and in the kitchen, and in the stable, strictly observe everything.

When the table leaves and the feast is over, collect all the silver and pewter dishes, look through, count, wash and put everything in its place, and the kitchen utensils as well. And sort out all the dishes, meat and fish, and jelly and stews, and tidy up, as said before. On the day of the feast - in the evening or early the next day - the host himself should look around, whether everything is in order and count, and test with the keykeeper exactly how much of what was eaten, drunk, and to whom what was given, and to whom what was sent, so that all expenses are he would be known in every business, and all the dishes would be on the account, and the housekeeper could report to the master exactly what went where and to whom what was given, and how much agreed on what. And if. God willing, everything is in order and not spent, and nothing is spoiled, then the master should reward the keykeeper, and the rest of the servants as well: both cooks and bakers who skillfully and economically cooked, and did not drink, and then praise everyone and feed, and drink; then they will try to continue to work well.

18. The order of the master to the keykeeper, how to cook lenten and meat dishes and feed the family in the meat-eater and in fasting

And even then the master would punish the housekeeper, what kind of food to the meat-eater to let go to the kitchen for the owner for household consumption, and for guests, and what kind - on fasting days. As for drinks, the housekeeper also needs a master’s order, which drinks to bring to the master and his wife, which to the family and guests, and all that to cook and make and give out according to the master’s order. And in every case, the master's housekeeper should ask every morning about dishes and drinks and about all assignments; as the lord commands, so be it. The master, on all household matters, consult with his wife and entrust the key keeper, how to feed the servants on which day: in fast days, sieve bread, cabbage soup every day, and liquid porridge with ham, and sometimes, replacing it, and cool with lard, and meat, if if they will, they will give it for dinner: and for dinner, cabbage soup and milk or porridge: and on fasting days, cabbage soup and rich porridge, sometimes with jam, when it’s peas, and when it’s dry, when it’s baked turnips. Yes, for dinner cabbage soup, oatmeal, and even pickle, botvinya. On Sundays and holidays for dinner, some pies or thick cereals, or vegetables, or herring porridge, pancakes and jelly, and whatever God sends. Yes, for dinner everything is as before. And for the wives of the servants and the girls, and the children too, and the working people the same food, but with the addition of leftovers from the tables of the master and the guest. The best people who trade or serve in the order, those master puts at his table. Those who serve guests at the table, in addition, after the table, eat up dishes from table leftovers. And the mistress to the craftswomen and seamstresses also - she herself feeds them at the table and serves them from her food. The servants drink beer from the squeeze, and on Sunday and on the holiday they will give the mash, and the clerks, too, always mash; other drinks the master will grant himself or order the keykeeper, but for pleasure and beer he orders to give.

The order of the lord or lady to the housekeeper and the cook, how to cook for the family, the servants or for the poor fast and fast food. Finely chop the cabbage or tops or kroshevo and wash well, and boil, and steam it harder; on fast days, put meat, ham or ham lard, serve sour cream or add cereals and boil. In the post, pour juice or some other kind of welding, add it and add it again, evaporate it well, add cereals and brew it with salt in sour cabbage soup. And also boil various porridge, and evaporate it well with oil or lard, or with herring oil, or with juice. And if there is dried meat, pollen meat, and corned beef or dried fish, both smoked and salted, wash them, scrape them, clean them and boil them well. And prepare all kinds of food for working families, and knead and leaven bread for them and roll it up well and bake it; and pies for them too. Prepare all food for them well and cleanly, as for yourself: from any dish of such a mistress or a housekeeper always eats himself, and if it is not cooked well or baked, he scolds the cook or baker, or the women who cooked. If the housekeeper does not follow this, then they scold him, but if the lady does not care about it, then her husband scolds; to feed the servants and the poor as you would yourself, for that is in honor of God, but for your own salvation.

The master and the lady should always watch and ask the servants and the weak and the poor about their need, about food, drink, clothing, everything necessary, about all their poverty and lack, about insult, about illness, about all those needs, in which you can help for the sake of God, as far as possible, and take care, as far as God will help, and with all your heart, as about your children, as about your loved ones. If someone does not take care of this and does not sympathize with such, he will answer before God and will not receive a reward from him, who will watch and keep all this with love, with all his heart, he will receive great mercy from God, remission of sins, and eternal life inherits.

19. How to bring up your children in different teachings and in the fear of God

May God send children, sons and daughters to whom, then the father and mother take care of their children; provide for them and educate them in good science: to teach the fear of God and courtesy, and every order. And over time, depending on the children and age, teach them needlework, the father - sons, and the mother - daughters, who is worthy of what, what abilities God will give to whom. To love and keep them, but also to save them with fear, punishing and teaching, or, having figured it out, and beat them. Punish children in your youth - they will put you to rest in your old age. And keep and observe the purity of the body and from all sin to the fathers of their children as the apple of their eye and as their soul. If children sin due to paternal or maternal negligence, they should be held accountable for such sins on the day of the Last Judgment. So if children, deprived of the instructions of their father and mother, in which they sin or do evil, then it is a sin for the father and mother with their children from God, and reproach and ridicule from people, loss to the house, and sorrow to themselves, from the judges shame and fine. If, however, God-fearing parents, prudent and reasonable, have children brought up in the fear of God in good instruction, and taught all knowledge and order, and craft, and needlework, such children, together with their parents, will be pardoned by God, blessed by priests and praised by good people, and when they grow up, good people with joy and gratitude will marry their sons to their daughters, or, by God's grace and choosing according to age, they will marry their daughters to their sons. But if God takes any child from such after repentance and with communion, then the parents bring an immaculate sacrifice to God, and as such children move into the eternal palaces, then they have the audacity to ask God for mercy and forgiveness of sins also for their parents.

20. How to raise daughters and marry with a dowry

If a daughter is born to someone, a prudent father who feeds on trade - whether he trades in a city or overseas - or plows in a village, such a one saves from any profit for his daughter (and in the village also): either they raise a small animal for her with offspring, or from her share, that God will send there, will buy canvases and canvases, and pieces of fabric, and robes, and a shirt - and all these years they put her in a special chest or in a box and a dress, and headdresses, and a monist, and church utensils, and utensils tin and copper and wood, always adding a little, every year, as it is said, and not all at once, at a loss. And everything, God willing, will be full. So the daughter grows, she learns the fear of God and knowledge, and her dowry keeps coming. As soon as they talk about marriage, the father and mother can no longer be sad: God has given them everything they have plenty, they will have a feast in fun and joy. If, however, the father and mother are not thrifty, according to what has been said here, they did not prepare anything for their daughter, and did not allocate any shares to her, they will only give her in marriage - they will immediately rush and buy everything, so that the imminent wedding is in full view of everyone. Both father and mother will fall into sadness from such a wedding, because buying everything at once is expensive. If, by the will of God, the daughter passes away, then they commemorate her with a dowry, magpies like her soul, and they distribute alms. And if there are other daughters, take care of them in the same way.

21. How to teach children and save them with fear

Punish your son in his youth, and he will give you rest in your old age, and give beauty to your soul. And do not feel sorry for the baby biy: if you punish him with a rod, he will not die, but he will be healthier, for by executing his body, you deliver his soul from death. If you have a daughter, and direct your severity at her, you will save her from bodily troubles: you will not shame your face if your daughters walk in obedience, and it’s not your fault if she foolishly violates her virginity, and becomes known to your acquaintances in mockery and then they will shame you before people. For if you give your daughter blameless - as if you will do a great deed, in any society you will be proud, never suffering because of her. Loving your son, increase his wounds - and then you will not praise him. Punish your son from youth, and you will rejoice for him in his maturity, and among ill-wishers you will be able to boast of him, and your enemies will envy you. Raise children in prohibitions and you will find peace and blessings in them. Do not laugh in vain when playing with him: in small things you will loosen up - in big

III. RUSSIAN QUEEN

1. royal weddings
2. Wives of Ivan the Terrible
3. Queen's Court

CONCLUSIONS

Despite the fact that already in the X century. (since the time of Olga) Rus' recognized and, one might say, recognized the activities of a female ruler; there were no such examples in Russian history until the 18th century. For many centuries, a Russian woman has almost always been in the shadow of a man. Perhaps it is for this reason that today we have to talk about the scarcity of sources that would help to make a clear picture of the life, life and customs of a woman in Rus'.

If we turn to East Slavic mythology, then already there we can find some contradictions regarding women and attitudes towards her. So with Mokosh, the only female deity in the pagan pantheon, not only the well-being of girlish destinies was associated, but also the fertility of the land and a good harvest. “Mother is damp earth” is a constant epithet of the highest feminine principle. On the other hand, few female images are associated with wet, dark, bad, that is, they are correlated with the manifestation of negative qualities (for example, mermaids, who lured passers-by with their singing, who could fall into the water and drown).

In one of the ancient teachings, the following comment about a beautiful field is given: “What is a wife? The network is set up seducing a person in power with a bright face, ubo and high eyes, naming, playing with his feet, killing deeds. If you had wounded many, they were seduced by the kindness of women, and from that, love seemed to be very inflamed ... What is a wife? the obliger to the saints, the rest of the serpent, the devil is a veil, a disease without color, a scourge that raises, a temptation to be saved, unhealed malice, a demonic merchant ” .

Numerous memoirs of foreigners who appear in Russia since the end of the 15th century narrate about a woman and her position in Russian society. preconceived views of foreign travelers who had the goal of opposing their “developed” and “cultural” country to barbarian Rus'.

In domestic and foreign historiography, there is a point of view that in the “history of a Russian woman” of the Middle Ages there is a significant milestone - the 16th century, after which a “regressive period” begins in the social status of a Russian woman. Its appearance is preceded, according to N. Kollman, by the appearance of the “terem system”. She believes that seclusion was the result of “strengthening the tsarist autocracy and the boyar elite,” as it allowed them to “exercise control over the political ties of large clans and families” (limit the circle of acquaintances, marry in accordance with the tasks of dynastic and political ties, etc. .) . 1 For the majority of our contemporaries, the norms of behavior, family foundations, morality in the XVI-XVII centuries. associated with such a concept as "Domostroy".

“Domostroy” is housekeeping, a collection of useful advice, teachings in the spirit of Christian morality. As for family relations, “Domostroy” instructs the head of the family to punish children and his wife in case of disobedience: it was not recommended to beat the wife with a stick, fist “neither in the ear, nor in vision, so that she would not become deaf and blind, but only for the great and terrible disobedience ... wearing a shirt with a whip politely beat ... ". Moreover, “not to beat in front of people, to teach in private.” 2 So how and how did Russian women live during the period of seclusion and the domination of the rules of “Domostroy”?

Fathers kept their daughters in strictness. Before marriage, the man had to be unknown to the girls. Mothers or nannies (in wealthy families) taught girls how to sew and various household chores. The more noble the family, the more rigor was present in education.

If in peasant life a woman was under the yoke of hard work, if everything that was more difficult was thrown on her, like a workhorse, then at least they were not kept locked up.

In the families of noble girls, buried in their chambers, not daring to appear in the world, without the hope of loving someone, day and night and always remained in prayer and washed their faces with tears. When marrying a girl, they did not ask about her desire. She herself did not know who she was going for, she did not see her fiancé before marriage. Having become a wife, she did not dare to leave the house without the permission of her husband, even if she went to church, and then she was obliged to ask questions.

According to the laws of decency, it was considered reprehensible to talk to a woman on the street. In Moscow, one traveler notes, no one will humble himself to kneel before a woman and roll incense before her. 1 A woman was not granted the right to freely meet according to her heart and temper, and if some kind of treatment was allowed with those with whom her husband was pleased to allow, but even then she was bound by instructions and remarks: what to say, what to keep silent about, what to ask, what not to hear .

It happened that the husband assigned to his wife “spies” from servants and serfs, and those, wanting to please the owner, often reinterpreted everything to him in the other direction. It often happened that a husband, at the slander of his beloved serf, beat his wife out of this only suspicion. Especially for such cases, the husband hung a whip, exclusively for his wife, and was called a fool. For insignificant guilt, the head of the family dragged his wife by the hair, stripped naked and whipped the fool to the blood - this was called teaching his wife. Sometimes rods were used instead of whips, and the wife was flogged like a small child.

Accustomed to slavery, which they were destined to drag from diapers to the grave, Russian women had no idea about the possibility of having other rights, and believed that they were, in fact, born to be beaten by their husbands, and beatings themselves were a sign love.

Foreigners told the following curious anecdote, passing from mouth to mouth in various variations. Some Italian married a Russian and lived with her for several years peacefully and in harmony, never beating her or scolding her. One day she says to him: “Why don’t you love me?” “I love you,” the husband said and kissed her. “You have not proved this to me,” said the wife. “How can you prove it?” he asked. The wife answered: “You never beat me.” “I didn’t know this,” the husband said, “but if beatings are needed to prove my love to you, then this will not be the case.” Soon after that, he beat her with a whip and really noticed that after that his wife became more kind and helpful to him. He beat her on another occasion, that after that she lay in bed for some time, but, however, did not grumble or complain. Finally, for the third time, he beat her with a club so hard that she died after a few days. Her relatives filed a complaint against her husband; but the judges, having learned all the circumstances of the case, said that she herself was to blame for her death; the husband did not know that beatings meant love among Russians, and wanted to prove that he loved more than all Russians; he not only beat his wife out of love, but also killed him to death. 1 Women said: “He who loves whom, he beats him, if the husband does not beat, then he does not love”, “Do not trust the horse in the field, but the wife in the wild”. The last proverb shows that bondage was considered the property of a female being. 2 In domestic life, a woman did not have any power, even in housekeeping. She did not dare to send anything as a gift to others, or to accept from another, she did not even dare to eat or drink without her husband's permission.

Rarely was a mother allowed to have influence over her children, starting with the fact that it was considered indecent for a noble woman to breastfeed her children, who were therefore given to nurses. Subsequently, the mother had less supervision over the children than the nannies and clerks, who raised the master's children under the authority of the father of the family.

The position of the wife was always worse if she had no children, but it became extremely terrible when the husband, bored with her, took a mistress on his side. There was no end to cavils, fights, beatings; often in such a case, the husband beat his wife to death and remained without punishment, because the wife died slowly, and it was impossible to say that he killed her, and beating her, at least ten times a day, was not considered a bad thing. It happened that the husband thus forced his wife to enter the monastery. The unfortunate woman, in order to avoid beatings, decided on voluntary imprisonment, especially since she had more freedom in the monastery than her husband. If the wife was stubborn, the husband could hire two or three false witnesses who accused her of adultery and then the wife was forcibly locked up in a monastery.

Sometimes a wife, lively by nature, objected to her husband's beatings with abuse, often indecent content. There were examples when wives poisoned their husbands. True, severe punishment awaited them for this: the criminals were buried alive in the ground, leaving their heads outside, and kept in this position until death, they were not allowed to eat and drink, and the watchmen stood by them, not allowing anyone to feed the woman. Passers-by were allowed to throw money, but this money was used for the coffin for the convict or for candles to appease God's wrath against her sinful soul. The death penalty could be replaced with eternal imprisonment. N. Kostomarov gives a description of one case when two women were kept up to their necks in the ground for three days for poisoning their husbands, but since they asked to go to the monastery, they dug them up and sent them to the monastery, ordering them to be kept separately in seclusion and in shackles.

Some wives avenged themselves with denunciations. The fact is that the voice of a woman (as well as the voice of anyone, including a serf) was accepted when it was a question of malevolence against a person of the royal house or the theft of the royal treasury.

Foreigners tell a remarkable event: the wife of one boyar, out of malice towards her husband who beat her, reported that he knew how to treat gout, which the tsar then suffered from; and although the boyar assured and swore that he did not know this at all, they tortured him and promised the death penalty if he did not find a cure for the sovereign. In desperation, he picked up any herbs and made a bath out of them for the king; by chance, the king felt better after that, and the doctor was flogged again because, knowing he did not want to talk. The wife took it. 1 From the foregoing, we can draw some conclusions. Firstly, from childhood, a girl was prepared for the fact that from under the authority of her father she would pass under the authority of her husband. Secondly, in any relationship, a woman was considered a being lower than a man. Thirdly, she had practically no civil or economic rights.

In the XVI-XVII centuries. the impulses of all gaiety among the upper classes were subject to the rules of church order. And during the holidays, the most revered of which were considered Christmas and Easter, girls and women were allowed some "liberties".

In peasant life, in addition to church ones, there were also festivities associated with certain agricultural periods.

In the summer, on holidays, girls and women led round dances and, as a rule, gathered for this near the villages. Russian dances were monotonous: they consisted in the fact that the girls, standing in one place, stomped, spun, dispersed and converged, clapped their hands, twisted their backs, propped up their arms at their sides, waved an embroidered scarf around their heads, moved their heads in different directions, winked their eyebrows. All these movements were made to the sounds of any one instrument.

In high society, dancing was generally considered indecent. According to church views, dancing, especially for women, was considered a soul-destroying sin. “Oh, evil accursed dancing (says one moralist), oh, crafty wives, multi-twisted dancing! Dancing then the wife of the adulterer of the devil, the wife of hell, the bride of the satanin; for those who love dance dishonor to John the Forerunner - unquenchable fire with Herodias and unsleeping worm to condemn! It was considered reprehensible to even look at the dances: such is the essence of being called Satan's mistress. 1 The favorite pastime of the festive time for women in all classes was swings and boards. The swing was built as follows: a board was attached to the rope, they sat on it, others shook the ropes. Women of a simple rank, townspeople and peasant women, swayed in the streets, noble women in courtyards and gardens. Rocking on the boards happened like this: two women stood on the edges of a log or board, bouncing, pumping one another up. It happened that girls and women swung on the wheel.

Ice skating was a winter entertainment: they made wooden horseshoes with narrow iron strips.

According to Russian concepts of the XVI-XVII centuries. the beauty of a woman consisted of thickness and corpulence. A slender woman was not considered beautiful. In order to get better, the fairer sex drank vodka on an empty stomach. According to Kostomarov, Russians loved women with long ears, so some of them pulled their ears out on purpose. Russian women loved to blush and whiten: “Women, beautiful in themselves, whitened and blushed to the point that they completely changed the expression of their faces and looked like painted dolls. In addition, they painted their neck and hands with white, red, blue, and brown paints; dyed eyelashes and eyebrows, and in the most ugly way - inked light, whitened black. Even those of the women who were good-looking and conscious that they were good-looking and without any extraneous embellishments, had to whiten and blush, so as not to be ridiculed. Under Mikhail Fedorovich, one Russian noblewoman, Princess Cherkasskaya, beautiful in herself, did not want to blush, so the society of that time mocked her; so strong was the custom; meanwhile, the church did not justify him, and in 1661 the Metropolitan of Novgorod forbade whitewashed women to enter the church. 2 The basis of the women's costume was still a long shirt, over which they put on a flyer with long wide sleeves (these sleeves were called caps). Depending on the social status, the wrists of shirt sleeves and caps, as well as the hem of the lettuce, could be embroidered with both simple threads or ribbons, and with gold and pearls. The colors of the flyers were different. Letniki are mentioned azure, green, yellow, but most often red.

Along the clothes, on the front side, a slit was made, which was fastened to the very throat, because decency required that the woman's chest be buttoned as tightly as possible.

Women's opash was sewn, as a rule, from cloth of red flowers; the sleeves were ankle-length, but below the shoulder there were armholes through which the hands easily passed, and the rest of the sleeve hung.

On solemn occasions, women put on a rich mantle, called a ceiling, in addition to their usual attire. It was made of silk fabric and was used only by noblewomen.

From outerwear, fur coats were common, which, depending on the cut, were called single-row, ohabney, feryazey.

As a rule, clothes were cut and sewn at home, since it was considered shameful for a good family to give clothes to the side. Usually, at the slightest opportunity, the husband did not skimp on dressing up his wife.

Women loved to adorn their heads and at the same time cover their hair (married). According to the concepts of the 16th-17th centuries, it was considered both a shame and a sin for a married woman to leave her hair on display. The woman was afraid that any of the members of the family, excluding her husband, would not see her hair. It should be noted that for this there was a sufficient number of headdresses: hairpieces, underbrowns, headbands, kicks, kokoshniks.

Both women and girls wore earrings. As soon as the girl began to walk, her mother pierced her ears and stuck earrings or rings in them. The most common form of earrings was oblong. Poor women wore copper earrings, more prosperous women wore silver and gilded ones. As for the rich, they preferred gold earrings adorned with diamonds and other stones.

Women wore cuffs or bracelets on their hands, and rings and rings on their fingers. The neck of a woman or a girl was decorated with many crosses and icons.

III. RUSSIAN QUEEN

1. royal weddings

Almost all Russian weddings were held in the same way, and there were no fundamental differences in customs and the procedure for holding them in different social strata. The only difference, perhaps, was the scale of the wedding feasts. Since much more is known about royal weddings than about common people, this issue was not touched upon in the previous chapter.

Russian girls got married very early, at the age of 13-14.

Royal weddings began with a parade of girls. Girls of boyar families were collected from different places, and the tsar chose the one he liked.

Ivan the Terrible ordered princes, boyars to bring their daughters to the girls. In the Novgorod region, from all the settlements, the landowners had to take their daughters to the governor, and the governor was obliged to introduce them to the tsar upon request. This was the duty of the fathers, and whoever was found guilty of disobedience was subjected to disgrace and even execution.

At the second marriage of Tsar Alexei Mikhailovich, the girls were gathered in the house of Artamon Sergeevich Matveev, and the tsar looked at them through a window from a secret room. He chose three and ordered the trusted women to testify their spiritual and bodily virtues. And then from these three I chose Natalya Kirillovna. The direct choice of the future wife took place personally. This was typical only for royal weddings (among the people, the bride and groom could only see each other at the wedding. Before that, only the groom's relatives saw the girl). The king approached his chosen one and gave her a fly (handkerchief) embroidered with gold and a ring with precious stones.

The chosen royal bride was taken to the palace, dressed in luxurious clothes (the dress of Natalya Kirillovna, when she was taken into the courtyard, was so embroidered with pearls that her legs ached from its weight), they called the princess.

The first bride of Alexei Mikhailovich fainted at her first appearance in front of the tsar, as the ubrus was pulled too tight to her. The whole family of the girl was accused of wanting to end the royal family by giving him a sick girl as his wife.

But until her marriage, she lived in complete alienation from the king. Before marriage, the king could only see the bride once.

On the eve of the wedding, a feast was announced. The king sat with the bride at the same table (the queen's face was covered) and all the guests brought gifts to them. If we talk about simple weddings, then here such feasts were replaced by festivities with the bride and the groom separately.

During the wedding preparations, the tsar-groom gathered in one of the chambers, the queen in the other. First, the queen went to the Faceted Chamber, the priest painted the place where she sat down. Nearby, in the place of the groom, they planted some noble boyar. When all this was arranged, they sent to let the king know about it. The tsar first sent his betrothed father, who beat the future empress with his forehead and sat down. Arriving at the chamber, the tsar approached his place, and the boyar sitting next to the bride was raised by the hands and taken away (in common people's weddings, the person sitting next to the bride had to be paid off).

The wedding took place after mass. After the wedding, the bride was uncovered and the priest read a lesson to the newlyweds: in it, as a rule, he instructed them to go to church often, obey confessors, keep fasts and holidays. The wife, as a sign of obedience, fell at the feet of her husband and touched his boot with her brow.

The queen went to her chambers, and the king went around his possessions in the district. After returning, the king invited his wife and guests to the table.

The royal wedding celebrations continued for several days. On the second day, a princely table was arranged, on the third - a table from the queen.

2. Wives of Ivan the Terrible Everywhere men rule men, and we, who rule all men, are ruled by our wives Cato the Elder “Domostroy” was written during the reign of Ivan IV. His government of the state was accompanied by monstrous terror. Were the necessary norms of behavior observed by the king and his wives?

S. Gorsky in his work “The Wives of Ivan the Terrible” comes to the conclusion that all changes in the mood of the tsar, and consequently, changes in politics, depended on the marital status of Ivan the Terrible and on whom he was married at a given period of time.

As you know, Ivan IV was officially married three times, and the church did not recognize his two marriages.

The first wife of the seventeen-year-old tsar was Anastasia Zakharyina. The Zakharyin family was not noble, but Anastasia captivated Ivan with her beauty. The hawys, gathered from all over the kingdom, smiling coquettishly, one way or another tried to attract the attention of the king, and he chose Zakharyina, whose modesty evoked mocking smiles. 1 People called Anastasia Zakharyina “Merciful” because during the fire in Moscow she helped the population with everything she could. With the permission of her husband, she gave away almost all of her jewelry.

The first two years of the fourteen-year marriage life could be called happy: the tsar stopped his cruel amusements, the Rada was introduced into the state administration. But after some time, Ivan the Terrible got sick of family life and he continued his bachelor manners.

After the death of Anastasia, who bore him two sons, Ivan IV did not grieve for long and after a couple of weeks he arranged a luxurious feast. A wave of executions swept across the country again.

Less than a year later, the new Empress Maria Temryukovna (daughter of the Circassian Prince Temryuk) was introduced to the Russian people. This queen was the complete opposite of the good Anastasia. Growing up among the Caucasian mountains, accustomed to hunting and danger, she craved a stormy life. The quiet terem life did not satisfy her. Maria willingly appeared in the solo chamber, enthusiastically attended the bear-baiting and even, to the horror of the boyars, watched public executions from the height of the Kremlin walls. She not only did not keep Ivan the Terrible from massacres, but she herself pushed him to them. The old adviser and favorite of the tsar, the boyar Adashev, dared to remark to the tsar that it was not appropriate for the Moscow tsarina to attend amusements and climb the fortress walls. The next day, Alexey Adashev was sent into exile (he was accused of malicious intent against the queen).

In order to more firmly bind the king to herself, Mary indulged his inclinations to debauchery. She surrounded herself with beautiful girls and pointed them out to the king herself.

As S. Gorsky notes, the oprichnina in Rus' arose just at that time.

For 9 years, the king was tired of Mary, besides, he suspected her of a conspiracy, so he was not upset by her death.

The boyars, seeing how desolated the country was, decided to persuade the tsar to enter into a new marriage. The experience of the past showed that marriage had a certain influence on Ivan the Terrible. The king willingly agreed to enter into a new marriage. The traditional review of girls was announced. Marfa Saburova is the name of the new chosen one. Two weeks after the wedding, Martha died. Her death sincerely saddened Ivan IV. The king spent two weeks in seclusion, during which time he noticeably aged and haggard.

A year later, Ivan the Terrible announced his intention to marry for the fourth time.

In order for the church to approve the marriage, he swore that Marfa Saburova never became his real wife and died a virgin.

The bishops had to admit the tsar's strange marriage to Anna Koltovskaya. In many respects she was similar to Maria Temryukovna. Anna knew how to entertain her sovereign, and he spent whole days in the queen's chamber, where beautiful girls always crowded, ready to dance and entertain the king at any moment.

Anna waged a systematic struggle against the oprichnina. She got married at 18. According to the concepts of that time, she was already "overstar". John chose her only because her whole figure breathed passion. But in the depths of her soul she harbored a deep hatred for the king. Anna once loved, but her chosen one, Prince Vorotynsky, somehow did not please Prince Vyazemsky and was tortured. Anna, using her influence on the king, slowly but surely destroyed the oprichnina. In one year, during which John was under the influence of his wife, all the leaders of the oprichnina were executed or exiled. 1 But Anna herself was in for a difficult fate. She was placed in one of the monastery crypts, where she lived for another 54 years.

After Anna, the king had two more wives, whom the church did not recognize. One of them was executed, and the second managed to survive his sovereign.

3. Courtyard of the Queen Courtyard of the Queen in the 16th-17th centuries. consisted only of women, with the exception of a few pages, not older than 10 years. The first place here belonged to the noblewoman, who took care of the treasury and looked after the bed. In second place was the kravchinya, who watched over all the personnel of the yard. She managed an extensive staff of craftswomen, gave orders to the bed-makers and slept with them in turn in the queen's bedchamber. She also accompanied the empress during her rare trips. In such cases, the beds turned into Amazons and accompanied the queen's carriage on horseback.

The largest and brightest room in the part of the palace reserved for the empress was the working room. Lights were attached to it. They accommodated up to fifty women who sewed underwear - seamstresses, and embroidered with gold - gold seamstresses.

The queen and her entourage, as a rule, did not have the right to leave the female half of the palace. Only in the reign of Alexei Mikhailovich, known for his gentle character, did his sisters, Tatyana and Anna, dare to ask the sovereign about this. It should be noted that the boyars constantly expressed their dissatisfaction with the fact that the king allows many liberties to his brisk sisters.

The queens also dined in their own half with children and without the king. After dinner, there was silence in the queen's chambers, as she went to bed. In general, in Rus', not sleeping after dinner was considered heresy.

IV. CONCLUSION During the XVI-XVII centuries. the position of women has not changed, although during the reign of Alexei Mikhailovich, there were some indulgences in relation to women. Nevertheless, for the most part, women continued to be in their chambers, not doing public affairs, not being able to take the initiative in anything.

It should also be noted that the "liberation" of women found an obstacle on the part of the boyars.

But despite this, the royal wives, being at a distance from state administration, if they wished, could influence the opinion of their husband-sovereign.

Given that during the period under review, all spheres of private and public life were somehow connected with church teachings, women were not burdened by their position and took everything for granted.

One of the reasons that in Rus' already from the 18th century women left the towers can be considered the appearance of foreigners, which began precisely from the end of the 15th - beginning of the 16th centuries.

LIST OF USED LITERATURE

1. Kostomarov N. Domestic life and customs of the Great Russian people. - M., 1993.
2. Pushkareva N. L. Women of Ancient Rus'. - M., 1989.
3. Woman in the ancient world / Sat. articles. - M., 1995.
4. Larington K. Women in legends and myths. - M., 1998.
5. Gorsky S. Wives of Ivan the Terrible. - Dnepropetrovsk, 1990.
6. Valishevsky K. Ivan the Terrible. - M., 1989.
7. Zabylin M. Russian people, its customs, rituals, traditions, superstitions and poetry. - Simferopol, 1992.
8. Reader on the history of Russia / In 4 volumes, v. 1. Comp. I. V. Babich and others - M., 1994.

"Domostroy" is perhaps the most complete set of norms that have come down to us that regulated social life in medieval Rus'. And by what rules did the Russians live before his appearance?

Paganism and Byzantium

Rus' for quite a long time was a closed Slavic state, whose life was regulated by pagan customs. Thus, bride kidnappings were practiced without their consent, polygamy. With the formation of Kievan Rus and the adoption of Christianity, family relations began to be regulated by church charters. For example, the Charter of Prince Yaroslav the Wise contains a ban on forced marriages.

Byzantine canon law (Nomocanon) was also introduced and cultivated, according to which monogamy was established. Marriages from now on could only take place in the church. Husband and wife after marriage had unequal rights, divorces were difficult.

After being translated into Russian, the Nomocanon was called the Pilot Book (XI century). It included additions made by Russian princes. Some of its provisions were also included in the "Russian Truth" by Yaroslav the Wise.

The first detailed set of rules of conduct known to us was given in the Teachings of Vladimir Monomakh (XII century). Code of Laws of 1497 and 1550 paid little attention to family law. In this area, until the era of Ivan the Terrible, church canons continued to operate, enshrined in Byzantine legislation.

Church, family, state

In the first half of the 16th century, a “Book called Domostroy” was published, containing useful information, teaching and instruction for every Christian - both husband and wife, and children, and servants, and maids. Its compilation is attributed to the educator, confessor and associate of Ivan the Terrible, Archpriest Sylvester, but many historians, in particular, S. M. Solovyov, I. S. Nekrasov, A. S. Orlov, D. V. Kolesov, believe that the text of “Domostroy "was born in the 15th century in Veliky Novgorod during the Novgorod Republic and was the fruit of collective creativity. Sylvester only rewrote the text.

This essay, consisting of 67 chapters, gave orders and teachings on how "every Christian should spend his life in good deeds, in purity and in repentance." It covered almost all aspects of people's lives. It contained instructions on how to relate to the Church, authorities, how to behave in the family.

For a modern person, Domostroy is associated mainly with the oppression of women in the family, but this is not entirely true. The purpose of the establishment of "house-building" traditions was not the oppression of a woman, but the protection of her rights.

Not everyone in the families before Domostroy was rosy. If among the ancient Slavs marriages were still made for love, then with the advent of Christianity it became a rarity: they usually married and gave in marriage by parental agreement, and the bride and groom could have a big age difference.

From now on, with the permission of the Church, marriage could only be entered into three times. For example, five out of eight marriages of Ivan the Terrible can be considered invalid.

If from the 10th to the 13th centuries women in Rus' enjoyed relative freedom, then according to the Domostroy, the rights of women were significantly limited. Before marriage, the girl had to be subordinate to her father, after the wedding she became the “property” of her husband. She was instructed to raise children and keep order in the house. True, material rights were assigned to her - to a dowry, to the property of the deceased spouse. Previously, a woman left an orphan or a widow, according to the law, did not receive any property from her relatives and was forced to beg, or she had to be supported by the community.

By the way, before Domostroy, women in Rus' were beaten by mortal combat, but in this work this action was still regulated. So, it was recommended to beat wives only for serious offenses and without witnesses.

Rus' for many centuries was fragmented into separate principalities. It was by the 16th century that it had developed as a centralized state headed by an autocratic tsar. This idea was also consolidated in Domostroy even at the level of a patriarchal family, headed by the owner and master.

What has changed "Domostroy"?

Thus, "Domostroy", on the one hand, consolidated the norms and traditions already established in Rus', due to the arrival of Orthodoxy, on the other hand, it streamlined what needed it.

Of course, in our time, many domostroy prescriptions no longer have a place in life. But in those distant times, this document was a necessary regulator that contributed to the formation of a new type of state system.