Maxim Postelny: “Eight people can sleep in my bed. Plazma: Russian romantics sing in English Plasma group Maxim bed personal life

Madonna, Rihanna, Tina Turner, Kristina Orbakaite, Jasmine, Ekaterina Arkharova… all these beautiful and popular women suffered from domestic violence. Some immediately broke off relations, others suffered beatings and humiliation for years.

Why do men beat the women they love? How to get away from a tyrant husband? And what if you have nowhere to go?

Marat Basharov and Ekaterina Arkharova: who is to blame?

novel by one of the most beautiful couples Russian show business ended with a magnificent wedding, and family life- a big scandal. Public opinion was divided, some argued that Basharov was a monster, others that Arkharova herself was to blame, and still others that this was just a PR stunt. But who is really right in this story? And is it possible to justify a man who raised his hand against a woman? In the special issue of Domashny, the quarrel of the former spouses is commented on by their friends and acquaintances.

Tatyana Shitova, actress:"It's clear that she (Ekaterina Arkharova - approx. "Homemade")speaks the truth, I think that the whole country sympathizes with her. I don't see any publicity. And then, forgive me, PR at such a cost ... "

Aigul Milshtein, TV presenter: "Marat - talented actor, wonderful person. But there are no excuses for this act ... What can I say - it's a pity. It's a shame he turned out like this."

Elena Knyazeva and Maxim Postelny. Photo: peopleschoice.ru

Star stories

Aigul Milshtein learned from her own experience how to be disappointed in a loved one. Her former lover popular actor Alexander Domogarov repeatedly raised his hand to her.

Aigul Milstein: « I have seen many cases where a man abused a woman. And when this happened in my life, I experienced a huge stress. I was confused, I just had a tantrum ... "

The sex symbol of the 90s and the star of the film Don Cesar de Bazan, actress Natalya Lapina, marriage to an American almost cost her her life.

Natalya Lapina:“When I ended up in the hospital, instead of forgiving, I started a criminal case…”.

Actress Olga Spirkina got married four times, but all divorces had one reason.

Olga Spirkina: « It so happened that men always offended me. And my mistake is that I endured all this. Probably, you still need to know your own worth. ”

Singer Elena Knyazeva in a relationship with a famous Russian politician I learned how the jealousy of a beloved man for the profession ends.

Elena Knyazeva: « I realized that he just ran out of patience, and he hit me in the face very hard ... ”.

Lily Richter. Photo: vk.com

Counter attack

A well-known nutritionist, star trainer, multiple winner of Thai boxing competitions, Lily Richter, once found herself in a similar situation. Out of professional habit, Lily, of course, decided to strike back.

Lily Richter:« He pushed me away quite aggressively. I started screaming. And then something happened - he hit me in the face, a slap in the face. Boxers speak at half strength. But you must understand what half strength is for a professional boxer! The reaction was immediate.And the moment he felt my fist on his face, I knew I had to run…”

When the victim is a man

In 99% of cases, the victims of domestic violence are women. Soloist Plasma groups Maxim Postelny was once in the rare 1%.

Maxim Bed: « All this happened quite harshly and ugly. At one point, even the police arrived. I don’t quite understand who called her: either the neighbors, or she(ex-girlfriend of Maxim. - Note. "Homemade"). But, nevertheless, the police came, saw what condition I was in (torn face), and I was offered to write a statement.”

Why famous director Dmitry Meskhiev declared war on his wife, actress Kristina Kuzmina? How actress Anna Kalashnikova was captured by former lover? Why did producer Alexander Shapovalov beat the singer Lama? And what did Maria Dashivets have to go through?

Members of the Plazma group Roman Chernitsyn and Maxim Postelny had a terrible accident on the highway in the Ostrogozhsky district Voronezh region. The musicians were heading to the city of Alekseevka on tour, but a snowstorm began on the highway on the way. In conditions of poor visibility at the turn, another car flew into the car of the artists, because of which the singers abruptly turned onto the side of the road and flew away near a deep ditch. Bedelny's car, a Toyota Land Cruiser 100, cannot be recovered after falling from a height of two meters, but the group members escaped with minor bruises.

We were going to a concert in the city of Alekseevka when we got into this accident, Maxim Bedtelny told Life. - We didn't get any injuries, because we were fastened, if it wasn't, everything would have ended much worse. However, the car was badly damaged.

The musicians had to hitchhike to their destination and leave the car at the scene of the accident. Bedelny and Chernitsyn were able to evacuate the car only upon returning back to Moscow.

Maxim Postelny: “Eight people can sleep in my bed”

Exclusive photo report by KM.RU special correspondent Kiril Zykov

"Plasma" is the first Russian pop group that decided to perform their songs exclusively on English language. The success turned out to be simply phenomenal, already the first album of the group was sold with a circulation of more than 1 million copies. Today, the backing vocalist of this group, Max, decided to invite us to visit him.

Max: Hello! Come in. Welcome to visit.

Max invited us to a newly purchased apartment, which he only started redecorating three weeks ago. The singer warned our film crew in advance that he had nothing to show except for the bare walls. But that didn't stop us.

Max: Let's go to the back room, let's start from the back room, because I like to start from the tail.

Max began his tour of the apartment from the place where new musical creations are born.

Max: In this room we will have a rehearsal base, there are drums somewhere in the corner. Roman will probably sit here, I will be here, there will be a bass player, a guitarist. In general, we will all rehearse here.

I would like to note that this studio is very well located. Max may not be afraid that the neighbors will complain about him to the police, demanding to stop rehearsals.

Max: There are no neighbors below, neighbors are constantly absent from above, there is a wall, and there is a hall. Therefore, we can play as much as we like, as long as we like, and as noisily as we like.

By the way, the ideological inspirer of this repair is the soloist of the group Roman. He literally gushes with ideas. The rest of the group helps make his dreams come true. This process is especially captivating for Plasma guitarist Nikolai.

Max: He so entered the role of a person who (I'll show you later) brings everything here to life, all the most daring plans of Roman, and it turns out absolutely amazing.

The guys are trying so actively not only out of friendly motives, there are other reasons for that.

Max: We will all live together here as soon as we repair it.

From the studio, we smoothly moved into the bedroom, in which Max plans to put an incredible size bed.

Max: There will be a common bedroom, the bed will stand. She will be somewhere from here, we measure about 190 in height, and that's all, right down to the battery. We'll make some kind of trestle bed, and in stacks of 8 people, I think they'll fit in here.

On the opposite wall, the owner plans to hang a large plasma TV.

Max: Here, of course, we will hang the plasma, that is, we will hang the plasma panel, it will be large. From now to now, 1m 80cm wide plasma panel. We will hang speakers here, some kind of VCR will stand here, I have a wonderful rare VCR, a whole collection, I like to collect them. I will arrange them all in a row here, and before going to bed we will compare which one shows better. So we had a great time in the 90s.

Now the main discussion in the group is the color of the walls. The musicians can not decide which color scheme suits them best, but it seems that they are already close to a compromise..

Max: And since we argue about color all the time, I suggested to everyone, we have just the number of people in the team is approximately equal to the number of walls in the rooms. Well, a little more, we will give Roman two walls, let him paint them in his favorite color. I am for red, just like a Ferrari, radically red, Roman, of course, will have something blue, we have people who want to paint it black. I won't give you a ceiling, the ceiling will be white.

Despite the fact that the guys have not yet decided on the color of the walls, Max already knows exactly which border tape they will stick.

Max: I'll go to Volgograd, bring my favorite collection of match labels, and, I think, two rows will go like this.

It is quite possible that soon the answer to the old Russian riddle “no windows, no doors full of people” will not be a cucumber, but Max’s bedroom. At least the idea of ​​making a windowless bedroom is now visiting Roman.

Max: Roman is a very bright person, but he offers to close up the windows, just make them with plasterboard so that there are no windows, because he loves darkness very much.

If Max still manages to defend the windows, then he will not hang blinds or curtains on them.

Max: And as for me, I would leave it like that, I would not even rip off these stickers, I love extreme.

By the way, as a legacy from the previous owners, Max got a good parquet, which needs only a little restoration..

Max: Roman called these masters, I showed them everything here. They said that this is a wonderful parquet, despite the fact that it is 40 years old. In general, the work of the master is afraid, we believed them.

Here, Max is going to place a lot of household appliances.

Max: This will be the kitchen. Since it has a very strange shape, we will not live here, as they live in large kitchens. No, we will arrange everything that we have here, each one will put an electric stove for himself, each one will put a small refrigerator for himself. I’m lying, of course, there will be one large stove and, of course, there will be one stove, and we will cook here, the girls will cook something, and we will consume it. We will consume, of course, not here.

The process of eating will take place in a room that will combine a dining room and a cinema, in which everything will be done in the spirit of minimalism.

Max: There will be a TV here, I have a wonderful TV, I will bring it from home. Here we will put a sofa, speakers in the corners, and here the entire wall will be occupied by a film library, lockers, shelves will simply lie on the floor, I think, because I probably already have about 1000 DVDs and about 500 cassettes.

At the end of the tour of the apartment, Max nevertheless admitted that he was going to live here alone, and not arrange a commune, but at the same time the doors of his house would always be open to friends.

Max: In principle, I will live here for the most part, and everyone who will somehow have a crisis will come here and live too. Thank you very much for coming, goodbye.

The guys came to their native Volgograd for a week, to relax, to see their parents and friends. We invited them to the editorial office for an online conference, but we did not expect to see four people on the doorstep instead of two at once - Roman and Maxim came, accompanied by their new passions. Roma new love- soloist of the group "VIP" Diana. And Maxim looked pleased next to Diana's friend Katya, who is engaged in advertising. We asked the guys your questions and some of our own.

@ Max, Shura-mura with Vodonaeva - is this a PR move or is it still love? Not so long ago I saw her on a program where the stars at parties are asked what they are wearing. Vodonaeva said that she was wearing the trousers of her beloved man. So - for you they are somehow too big in size. Anyway, what kind of relationship do you have? Karen.

Maksim:- We have cooling in relations. I can't comment any more.

Novel:- No, in fact, they were damn friendly for a while. We are all friendly now. Especially since we perform together. Alena has a similar story. We held a casting - an idea arose to take a soloist into the group. Alena found out about this and came. We realized that taking her as a backing vocalist is nonsense, because she herself is very bright girl, and this is too narrow a role for her. Therefore, we came up with this version of a joint project.

@ Vodonaeva and vocals are nonsense. Moreover, a girl with such a reputation is unlikely to increase your rating. So why did you take her to the group? Gella.

Maksim:- Actually it is not. Alena has a very pleasant timbre of voice. Much better than the soloists of many groups - let's not point fingers. She lacks experience. But like a sponge, she quickly absorbs and assimilates everything. And in general, in life she is very far from that bitchy image that the producers of the Dom-2 project experienced on her with such pleasure.

Novel:- Even before we met her, we, of course, had heard a little about her, so sometimes we watched Dom-2. But when we conceived a project with Vodonaeva and announced it, what started here! There was some talk that she was such and such, and how could you ... In fact, she is a very positive person, and as far as work is concerned, she is very disciplined and punctual.

@ Roman, I found your page on Odnoklassniki. I saw cool pictures, including with a tractor. Is this your page and how do you generally feel about such sites, do you often go there? Nastya.

Novel:- I am positive. The tractor page is really mine. I found on the site a huge number of people with whom I lost contact a long time ago - comrades in Artek, for example ... True, now I go less and less.

Maksim: It's just that sometimes there is only enough time to click, accepting an invitation to friends. I can’t refuse if a person offers to be a friend. But due to the fact that there is no time to answer, I seem to have an incredible amount of messages there ...

@ Roma, have you come to Volgograd for a long time? Your fan Rita.

Novel: We've been out for a week. Only in Volgograd you can relax to the fullest. We meet with friends, relax at the parental dacha on Varvarovka. The girls are in Volgograd for the first time, so we show them the sights - we took them to Mamaev Kurgan, tomorrow we will go to the panorama museum.

Our correspondent:- Do potatoes grow in the country?

Novel:- I don’t know, honestly, this is what parents do.

Diana (Roman's friend):- Strawberries are growing. And a radish.

@ Roman, in the "Comedy Club" you showed up four of you - Max with Alena, and you with some mysterious brunette. Who is this??? Karen.

This is just Diana, who is in the spotlight today.

Our correspondent:- And in more detail?

Novel:- Diana is a soloist of the VIP group. We had known each other a little for a long time - we met at various events there, then somehow we got closer at a party - and now ... We became friends, damn it!

Our correspondent:- And Maxim's girlfriend?

Maksim:- Kate. She is a friend of Diana. So that's how we met.

@ Roman, how often do you manage to communicate with your son after a divorce, what gifts do you give him? How is your relationship with Irina now? Can you imagine getting married again now?

@ How often do you manage to relax, where do you like to go? Which cities abroad have become especially close to you? Do you give concerts abroad? Lena.

Maksim:- I love London .

Novel:- I have not been to London, I love Barcelona very much. We often travel to Thailand. We had concerts in France, Italy, Finland, Greece, Vietnam, you can’t remember everything ...

@ You left Dmitry Malikov a long time ago, who is the producer of the group now? Are you going to help talented guys from Volgograd to break through? Vika.

Novel:- Maxim is a producer.

Maksim:- Roman is producing (laugh).

Maksim:- And about the help - no, we are not going to. Now in show business everything is very clearly divided into niches, and obvious professionals should do such work. We are too soft, kind and lazy for producers.

@ Have you dabbled in anything other than music? When can we expect new songs, an album? Website visitor (no signature).

Novel:- Still, you need to do what you do best.

Our correspondent:- But, maybe, at the machine once, what good, they stood?

Novel:- And he stood! True, only a year, I was either 20 or 21. I worked at the VolgoGRES power plant, on instrumentation. There were also checkers, backgammon, chess in the change house. Needless to say, we didn't ignore them. Yes, and the dining room was still like that ... They cooked there in such a way that you lick your fingers. It seems that everything is simple - a potato, a cutlet. But there is still a process - you walk along the conveyor with a tray ...

Maksim:- And I worked at Khimprom, I was engaged in programming. And even earlier he tried to sing in an entreprise. As for the album, most likely it will appear by next year. Here the vacation is over ... Let's start work. In general, how will it go. So far, one song is ready - "Paper Sky". There is an English version of it, which we perform without Alena.

@ What kind of clothes do you prefer and what kind of cuisine do you like? Christie.

Novel:- We are not ultra-fashionable, not clothes-makers. But you have to take care of yourself. I love sport style clothes. There is no tuxedo in my wardrobe. There are a couple of suits, but I don't even remember when I wore them. There are no gastronomic preferences - I am an omnivore. But Maxim, on the contrary, very carefully monitors his diet. I am inclined to believe that what he eats is not edible at all. And he has a whole collection of ties.

Maksim:- I'm not a vegetarian, but I try to eat a balanced diet. Chicken breasts, rice, steamed fish, all without salt or other spices. As for clothing, I, on the contrary, Lately On the other hand, I loved the costumes. Yes, I have a chic collection of ties - I especially like the ones with a skull and a bunny.

@ Roma, you and Maxim are just colleagues, an interest group or friends, do you often quarrel? Christie.

Roman: We are friends. We've known each other for a thousand years. We met in 1988. I was a high school student, and Max studied at a technical school. Together they performed in the school ensemble at the Kirov Teacher's House. We fight, yes. “Not without a strong word” ... But at the same time, both are damned not vindictive and quickly put up.

The Plazma group broke into radio stations in 2000 almost instantly. Hits Take My Love, The Sweetest Surrender, Lonely, You "ll Never Meet An Angel, One Life - an amazing combination for Russia English text and European quality sound. Meanwhile, the authors of these energetic melodies - Maxim Postelny and Roman Chernitsin - are simple guys from Volgograd. Now they are going to turn their duet into a trio.

You are looking for a girl in the team. For what?

Maksim: We have long wanted to have a couple of moving girls in the team. Well, or one girl who will play the keys, the tambourine or the harmonica. In a word, something bright, scenic. And then suddenly it became interesting how female vocals would sound within the framework of the Plazma group. Why not? There are a lot of girls who sing! Unlike us, she could sing in Russian.

What should this girl look like?

Roman: Well, we do not have strict requirements for appearance: blonde or brunette. The most important thing is that she was a person, a special energy emanated from her. What our final choice will depend on, we don't know yet... Maybe it's the vocal abilities or the ability to present oneself. Or maybe it will be something special on the outside.

Maksim: If she is a truly charismatic person, I am even ready to give her my place in the team. Is it true! The alignment will be as follows: in front - Roman, slightly approaching him on the line - a girl. Well, behind me, your obedient servant. And already behind me - the whole armada of musicians.

Was it difficult in Moscow when you arrived?

Roman: Yes, the first year. When we left for Moscow, we were very popular group in Volgograd. And in the capital no one knew us, in the subway, of course, they did not recognize us.

Maksim: The most cruel thing was that the girls did not throw themselves on the neck!

Probably over your stage images conjured metropolitan stylists?

Roman: We've never had a stylist do something drastic with us against our wishes. We always try to listen to the stylist, but so that it does not contradict our inner feelings.

Maksim: I generally let go, let go of my hair, and when I got married, my wife immediately cut it off. Then another girl appeared, her hair became even shorter. When I become bald, know: I have achieved what I dreamed of! Girls - a lot!

Roman is married to singer Irina Dubtsova. And what about your personal life, Maxim?

Maxim: I'm free. I'm on a creative quest. I have no special requirements for a potential companion. Like the fact that the blonde, height 180, 90-60-90, the nose is such and such, the shape of the eyes is such and such. Only stupid girls rage.

How do you like to relax?

Roman: As a rule, we gather in a narrow circle of close friends and leave for quiet places. When there is little time, we go to Volgograd, if there is a lot of time, we fly abroad. Lying for hours on the beach is the dumbest thing you can think of doing. If we are abroad, then we rent a car and drive to the sights, climb mountains and waterfalls.

Maksim: Yeah, tell us how we got lost in Malaysia.

Novel: We were at the waterfall and decided to take a walk along the tourist route. But they made a mistake and went to the path that led to the top of the mountain. We walked, walked, naively thought that it was about to end, and we would return to the same place. In short, we climbed this mountain for three hours.

Maksim: And four hours later descended! Without water, under the scorching sun, through the jungle, in sandals. When they went down, they met a Russian. He looked up at the top and asked, "Were you there?" We nodded. The tourist looked at us like we were idiots. This is rest! And on the beach...

Do you actually do crazy things like this?

Maxim: Only by mistake! We've taken the wrong path! No, we are not very extreme people. We are not skydivers, surfers, or divers. Where we allow ourselves a light extreme is on the road. We love active driving style. Thank God, the quality of the coverage of Moscow roads allows this.

What about traffic jams?

Maxim: Oh! I rage in traffic jams, I start hitting the steering wheel, you know, as they show in films, honking. Then it passes, and I stupidly drive in a traffic jam. Well, how can you get used to sitting on a hot stove? I can't do that!

Novel: I am more tolerant. I often sing in the car, compose songs.

Remember the act of a fan that surprised you?

Maxim: Roman's shirt was torn.

Novel: Once journalists wrote that one fan tore my shirt, and I fastened it with pins, on this basis I felt like a designer and decided to model clothes. One girl took this information at face value. At one of the concerts, I decided that if she tears my shirt, then I will be very happy and will again accomplish a design feat. When I got close to the edge of the stage, she frantically began pulling on my sleeve. And successfully tore it off! I was very upset, it was my favorite shirt.

But communication with fans is also pleasant?

Maxim: Recently, a fan girl gave me an encyclopedia about dragons. I'm such a seasoned Tolkienist. An amazing book, all in stones. Inside - all the types of dragons, samples of their skin ... Stunned! I will remember this gift for the rest of my life.

Have you been musically talented since childhood?

Roman: I didn't go to music school, unlike Max. His parents sent him there by force, he was a very undisciplined child. Is not it?

Maksim: Well, at first I wanted to go to the music school, and then I lost interest. Parents at that moment supported the undertaking: “What? The piano has been bought, go!” That's why I didn't quit.

Novel: In deep childhood, from the point of view of parents, I did not show any signs of craving for music. But the parents still asked: “Do you want to go to a music school?” I thrashed in hysterics, fell to the floor, pounded with my feet ... My parents came to the conclusion: for sure, I don’t gravitate towards music. At school he had a B in singing. I drew cars in class and chatted with my neighbor.

Maksim: And I had a triple in singing!

Novel: In the last class of the school, we were in the same ensemble. After graduation, everyone wandered off somewhere. And Max and I were obsessed with the idea of ​​writing our own songs, singing in our own band. We thought it was very romantic.

If only there were a few more hours in the day. What would you spend them on?

Maksim: On even - sleep, on odd - sex!

Could you go to a monastery?

Novel: No!

Maksim: Well, if for a couple of months ...

In a female?

Maksim: Yes! Great idea!