Extracurricular activity school etiquette. Extracurricular event "Etiquette is a serious matter

September 18 in the children's library-branch No. 3, a training event was held - a school of good manners "Welcome to Etiquetsk" (Project "Culture"), which was attended by library readers - students of MBOU secondary school No. 8.

What is this country "Etiquette"? How to get to such a glorious city "Etiketsk"? Librarians helped the children answer these questions during the event.

At the beginning of the event, the presenter Cherkasova E.E. spoke about history of etiquette, about what instructions on the rules of conduct were contained in the books "Domostroy" and "Honest Mirror of Youth". Some rules of etiquette seem ridiculous to us today, outdated, but does this mean that you can do without them at all?

Since the guys spend most of their time at school, the conversation continued about norms of modern school etiquette, on the requirements for the appearance of the student. The scene "Defile of violators of the school dress code" was played.

Often the guys use slang words in their speech, likening the heroine of the novel by Ilf and Petrov "12 chairs" to the "cannibal" Ellochka. 3 volunteers volunteered to demonstrate such a conversation (one used slang words in the conversation, the other used ordinary words, and the third acted as a simultaneous interpreter for the first). About our speech, about telephone etiquette was discussed in this section of the trip to Etiquetsk.

The boys were asked to take part in gentleman's exam which they successfully managed.

During literary competition the guys guessed the name of the work and its characters from the passage read by the librarian (A. Milne. "Winnie the Pooh and all-all-all"; A.N. Tolstoy "The Golden Key, or the Adventures of Pinocchio").

Ability to greet guests and behave properly at a party - great art which is not easy to learn. The guys were able to test their knowledge in this area by answering the questions of the blitz tour “A guest in the house is a joy in it”.

Then it was time for practical tasks, and the guys showed their skills in the correct table setting, and also held a competition for the title of "The most accurate" (they ate watermelon).

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Nothing is given to us so cheaply and is not valued so dearly as politeness. These words of M. Cervantes perfectly reflect one of the most important norms of etiquette - a polite, benevolent attitude towards elders and juniors, towards their peers. All together, the participants of the event recalled the "magic" words, and also listened to S. Marshak's poem "If you are polite ...".

We also talked about library etiquette, about how to behave in the library.

The lesson at the “School of Good Manners” ended on a playful note. Librarian Ignatova O.V. gave the children a comic song about students who do not recognize school etiquette. The incendiary melody (to the motive of the song "Island of Bad Luck") did not leave anyone indifferent and the legs themselves began to dance.

Target: To introduce the children to the rules of behavior in various situations, to help them look at themselves from the outside.

Tasks:

1. To promote the development of creative original thinking, ingenuity, sense of humor, interest in human culture.
2. Contribute to the education of a culture of behavior in adolescents and polite, respectful attitude to people.
3. To promote the ability to apply the acquired knowledge.

ruin everyone's mood
Maybe your behavior.
Many children do not know
Nothing about etiquette.
And they don't see the bad in it
That hurt someone.

Hello guys. Today we will talk about etiquette. What it is? Why do we need it? Rules of conduct help to feel more confident in society and not get into an unpleasant situation. There are many rules. In China, for example, there are about thirty thousand ceremonies: how to knock on the door, how to enter, get up, sit down, take a cup of tea. We, in Russia, also have a whole set of rules that fit in several books called Domostroy.

I invite three teams to join us (5, 6A and 6B). We will try to find out which of them knows the most about etiquette.

You have been invited to a birthday party. What will you do first?(children's answers) Indeed, but everywhere you need to follow the rules of decency: on the street, in a store, at home. We'll talk about all this, but first, a warm-up. I ask questions, and you must give the correct answers with explanations.

Backfill questions:

Who is the first to say hello:boy or girl?(boy)

Who gives a hand first: a boy or a girl?(girl)

Where to put chewing gum if you are visiting at the table?You need to wrap it in a piece of paper and throw it in the trash can. You should not leave it on a plate, even in paper, and even more so stick it to the table.

Is it possible, while talking, to actively gesticulate, take the interlocutor by the sleeve, by the button?It is forbidden; the rules of etiquette provide for moderation in gestures: a gesture is needed where words cannot be heard.

Can I refuse a gift?When refusing a gift, they emphasize gratitude for the attention and motivate their refusal (it is indecent to accept a gift or it is very valuable).

Is it possible to give even number colors?In Estonia, it is customary to give an even number of flowers, while in our country it is an odd number, and an even number is brought to a commemoration or on the day of the funeral.

Do you have to say hello to everyone when you get on the bus?Only if you have friends. Otherwise, just smile.

Is it possible to give flowers to men?Yes, but only on special occasions.

Can I arrive an hour before the scheduled time?No, because you can catch the owners by surprise.

What to do if you suddenly forgot the name of the interlocutor?It is better to ask the interlocutor to give his name, it is better than to call a person someone else's name.

What will you say if someone asks you for an apology?"Please" or "It's okay."

How do I get to my seat at the cinema?In front of the audience.

How long should a man's socks be?The length must be such that no leg is visible between the top of the toe and the bottom under any circumstances.

How will you talk to your friend's mom on the phone?Be sure to say hello, give your first and last name, say that you are a friend of her son (if you don’t know each other), and only then ask to call him on the phone.

Until what time can you call someone?(until 9 pm)

What would you do if someone sneezed in the room next to you?If there are a lot of people around the person who is sneezing, it is not entirely necessary to say: “Be healthy”, it is enough just to ignore it.

If you need to say something to each other that outsiders should not hear, can you say it in a whisper in his ear?Whispering in the presence of third parties is considered the height of indecency.

When should you take off your hat?Women may not remove their headgear; a man must take it off when entering the room. The custom of taking off one's hat at a meeting is almost a thing of the past.

When showing courtesy (for example, giving up a seat in transport), is it necessary to be persistent?You should try to be kind, but don't be overbearing. For example, like this:

Yevgeny promised his father:

I'll take the courtesy:

I will thank everyone

Say "hello" first!

Here is a boy with diligence

Fulfills the promise.

Sees - in the morning at the gatehouse

The watchman is dozing on the threshold.

He did not sleep at night,

Just dozed off.

And Eugene how to scream:

WITH Good morning, grandfather Fedot!

Grandfather scolded him awake:

Get out, shooter!

Here Zhenya caught up with Irinka

Yes, how he pulls for a scarf:

Where are you, Irina, stop,

I greet you!

She stepped aside...

What a rude girl...

The teacher carried a stack of books

And Zhenya jumped from the fence.

Almost sat on his shoulders.

Sorry, good evening!

You, - the counselor shouted, -

And ignorant, and impudent!

Petya is very surprised:

Was he impolite?

Was he impolite?(children's answers)

Let's observe ourselves from the outside and try to correct the mistakes.

Situation 1. Behavior on the street.Walking down the street "sweet couple": young man he sips beer from a can on the go, his companion gnaws seeds with relish. A friend sees them and starts waving his arms, shouting to say hello.

Question: What do you think of their behavior? Maybe you yourself behave this way? Or do you think it's normal because everyone does it?How many mistakes did you count? What should you do if you want to chat with a friend?

Answer: Don't adopt bad manners. From the point of view of etiquette, such behavior is considered the height of indecency. For "food" you can find a more comfortable place than the street. In the crowd, you do not need to violently show your feelings, slowing down the movement. And if you absolutely need to talk, then you need to step aside.

Situation 2. Behavior in the store.The hero is standing in front of the store doors. People come in and out. Tired of waiting, he pushes people aside and climbs forward.

Question: Who should skip whom?

Answer: First you need to skip those leaving the store. There will be less crowds. In a crowd, you risk getting hurt, being crushed. The boys should definitely skip the girls. And if the girl is familiar, then you can give her a hand, support the door.

Situation 3. Behavior in the store.Hero in the store with mom. He constantly pulls her and laments: buy an iPhone, buy a tablet, well, at least a flash drive. Mom .. well mom ...

Question: Does anyone recognize themselves? How will your mom behave?

Answer: If you know which store you are going to, you should

at home, first discuss the possibility of buying something so as not to cause inconvenience to mom. And if you don’t know, then just admire what you see. loving mother, if she has the opportunity, she will definitely buy the desired thing for you.

Situation 4. Behavior on the bus.The hero sits in a crowded bus. Included old man. The hero, chewing gum, asks a neighbor, younger age stand up and give up your seat. And then, he says that polite people are always inferior to the elderly.

Question: Did he do the right thing?

Answer: Well-mannered people must themselves give way, and courtesy at the expense of others is not a sign of good breeding.

Situation 5. Choosing a gift.The heroes in the store buy a gift for their girlfriend.

-So, what a good bunny, I'll buy it. And inexpensive.

But she has a lot soft toys. Let's buy a photo album.

Come on, it's cheaper. Even though she doesn't have any photos...

Oh, flowers in the flower bed, let's pick.

They come to a friend.

Congratulations. We chose it ourselves, you know, it costs 200 rubles. We collected money and formed. I wanted a hare, but you better give it to me for my birthday.

Flowers 9, barely 9 - th found, and then as a reminder.

Question: How many mistakes did you find in the behavior of girls?

Giving and receiving gifts is also an art of etiquette.

1. When choosing a gift, you cannot rely on your own taste and inclinations.

3. When presenting a gift, any comments about its value, the difficulties associated with its purchase, or any flaws in the gift are superfluous.

4. Presenting a gift is accompanied by good wishes and a smile.

5. You should always accept a gift with gratitude, even if this thing is not needed or there is a similar one in the house.

6. Fruits and sweets received as a gift are offered to all those present.

7. If a gift given to very close people turned out to be unsuccessful, you can offer to exchange it.

8. Flowers are one of those gifts that are always appropriate. Flowers suitable for a gift are chosen very carefully.

You are finally at your girlfriend or friend and are ready to sit down at the festive table. How to properly cover?

Table setting. Already more than two hundred years ago, the rules of decent behavior at the table were developed and adopted. In the Middle Ages, during ceremonial dinners, pages rode horses into the hall and served bowls of food directly from the saddle to the guests, and threw the remnants of the meal to the dogs. And greasy hands wiped directly on the skins of dogs. Would you like it if your guests wiped their hands on their favorite dog? In some countries, they wiped their hands on the skins of pigs. And the pigs walking around the hall were like never before, by the way, because they ate leftovers. There was less to clean up. But, times have changed, and ideas about decency have changed. The Romans already have napkins. Nowadays, a fork, knife and spoon are already on the table. And once, in the XVI century, it was a newfangled invention. Forks were made of gold or ivory and could only be found in very wealthy families. So you and I are lucky: we have napkins, and spoons, and forks, it remains only to be able to use this wealth.

Practical work number 1. Table setting.And now the teams will try to properly set the table.

We have analyzed several types of etiquette: dining room, on the street, on the bus, at a party. There are many types of etiquette. And the last one we would like to dwell on is the school one. I suggest that the teams show us skits. Here are the plots for you, but you can add something of your own.

Practical work number 2.

Situation 7: How not to behave in a company, at school.

Boys and girls run. Some rush through the school, jump on each other, Sit on chairs, the boys spread their legs. Girls, grimacing and chewing gum. Many are stuck on the phone.

Situation 8: How not to behave in class.

Call. The teacher comes in. There is only one person in the class. After a while another one comes in, the teacher starts the lesson. Then more. At the end of the lesson, the last one enters. During the lesson, students constantly interrupt the teacher, chew gum, play on the phone, draw.

Situation 9: How not to behave at the table.Moms set the table, talk about the upcoming holiday. Children run up to the table all the time, grabbing food from it or constantly asking for something, and indignant when it will finally be possible to eat. And they run away, without helping, to clear the table.

While the teams are preparing - Game with the audience.It turns out that it is not the most important thing to meet and feed guests well. It is very important that they are not bored. And various games provide invaluable help in this. There are many fun games with which guests can be entertained. For example, "shifters".

1. Giant girl. ("Boy-with-a-finger.")

2. Fat mortal. ("Koschei the Deathless".)

3. Get away from the new washing machine. (Stay with nothing.)

4. Bald head - male disgrace. (The scythe is a girlish beauty.)

5. Chicken boar girlfriend. (A goose is not a comrade to a pig.)

If the teams are not yet ready, then you can discuss what the proverbs mean:

1. "In a strange house, do not be perceptive, but be friendly,"
2. "Feel to regale, but do not will to captivity",
3. “They go to mass on the ringing, and to dinner on the call”,
4. “Where you are happy, do not increase there, and where you are not happy, do not stay for a century!”,
5. “To visit you - you must also drive to yourself”,
6. "Know how to invite guests, know how to meet",
7. “I arrived - I didn’t say hello, I left - I didn’t say goodbye”,
8. "He has four corners, he is happy with himself."
9. “Accustom a young man to poverty, and he will get used to luxury himself.”
10. “Hurry up the concept of duty in him, and he himself will observe his own benefits.”
11. “In China, a father is rewarded for the services of his son, while in our country, a son is rewarded for the services of his father. To preserve morality, one must use the Chinese principle.”

After viewing the situation 7, 8, 9 show how not to behave.

Etiquette for girls: it is very important to be able to walk and sit beautifully. And it's just unacceptable:

Sitting down, raise a dress or coat;

Collapse noisily on the seat of a chair;

Sit with legs wide apart;

Sitting, lounging on a chair;

Sit perched on the very edge of a chair;

Wrap your legs around the leg of a chair;

Embrace your knees;

When standing up, push the chair away.

Etiquette for boys:

The boy should never look loose, unassembled, defiant and rude;

Don't walk with your collar up unnecessarily, don't keep your hands in your pockets;

Help anyone who needs your help;

Be attentive to girls and women, to the disabled and the elderly: help carry a heavy bag, skip ahead at the door, help cross the street, get off the bus, climb the stairs;

Never enter into quarrels and quarrels, do not be petty and quarrelsome.

So guys, now you know that there are many different types etiquette, many books teaching proper behavior.But even if you own all the cutlery, knowing when to take off your hat and when to kiss a lady's hand, you may not arouse the sympathy of others if you are not cordial, delicate and restrained at the same time. Which class is the most well-educated? Applause.

To make life easier for everyone
I didn't have to cry often.
My friendly advice to you:
Observe etiquette!

Development of extra-curricular activities for schoolchildren of grades 7, 8 and 9 on the topic: Etiquette.

Meeting of the etiquette club "Faculty of Forgotten Truths"

Goals: fostering a culture of behavior in adolescents, a polite, respectful attitude towards people; development of creative original thinking, ingenuity, sense of humor, interest in human culture.

Preparation

1. The class is divided into two teams.

2. The cabinet is drawn up according to the topic.

Characters

Marquis Etiquette.

Event progress

Lead 1. Hello, Dear friends! We are glad to welcome you to the meeting of the etiquette club "Faculty of Forgotten Truths". Why do we need the rules of etiquette, everyone knows.

Knowing the rules of cultural behavior, you will feel more confident in society, you will not get into trouble by saying or doing something that, according to etiquette, is considered disrespectful to others. There is no need to memorize the rules, it is enough to understand their meaning. Therefore, it is necessary to start talking about them with history.

Marquis Etiquette. The rules of etiquette arose in ancient times as a convenient and reasonable form of communication. There were and are an infinite number of them. IN Ancient China For example, there were about thirty thousand ceremonies: how to knock on the door, how to enter, how to get up, sit down, take a cup of tea - everything was strictly defined and scheduled. It took more than one year for children from wealthy classes to learn these rules. And it took so much time to complete them that only a person not burdened with worries and work could afford to “ceremoniously”. The people still remember these complex rules. And when two people do not agree to enter the door one after the other, they say with irony about them: “Well, Chinese ceremonies have been lit.”

In Japan, when several people gather at the table, everyone knows exactly where everyone should sit: who is at the niche with the picture - in fact place of honor who is first left hand from him, who is second and who should sit at the entrance. Any attempt to sit in an "unfamiliar" place will only cause general confusion. This is exactly what happens when a visiting foreigner, wanting to be considered modest, stubbornly refuses the place assigned to him at the table.

The Japanese have very peculiar rules of good manners. Noticing a friend, the Japanese considers it his duty, first of all, to freeze in place, even if it takes place in the middle of the street and a tram is heading straight for him. Then he seems to break in the lower back, the palms of his outstretched hands slide down his knees, and, frozen for a few more seconds in a bent position, he carefully raises only his eyes. It is impolite to be the first to straighten up, and those bowing have to vigilantly watch each other.

From the outside, this scene gives the impression that both of them had a backache, and they are unable to straighten up. Tokyo newspapers have calculated that each employee makes such formal bows on average 36 times a day, an agent of a trading company 123 times, a girl at an escalator in a department store 2560 times.

In the crowd, a mysterious transformation takes place with the Japanese. Where do they disappear refined manners, courtesy, courtesy? He makes his way in the human stream, completely oblivious to anyone. As long as passers-by on the street or passengers in the car remain unfamiliar, the Japanese consider themselves entitled to treat them as inanimate objects. Sitting on the bus, he can, without a twinge of conscience, push a woman off the footboard, he can, using his knees and elbows, exchange kicks with a neighbor.

In Rus', the rules of good manners have evolved since time immemorial. These rules regulated the relationship of people, and a set of prescriptions began to be drawn up relatively recently. In the 16th century, a collection called "Domostroy" appeared, a most valuable monument medieval culture. He determined the rules of life of a medieval person, its economic, religious and family aspects. Domostroy talked about what it means to be moral, gave economic advice, recommended recipes for traditional medicine.

The collection was based primarily on Christian morality, so a large place in it was given to moral teachings. The concepts of morality and ethics were closely intertwined in such textbooks of life. It was believed that if a person is pleasing to God, pure and moral, then he will always do the right thing.

In the Short Catechism of the Russian People of 1837 one can find very interesting position about the fact that morality in Russian people does not need to be brought up: it is inherent in a person at his birth. "Consequence moral life there is order, silence, tranquility, obedience to the house, all this is in the Russian land, therefore, Russians are moral.

Twenty-two years after the publication of the Catechism, in 1859, the well-meaning magazine was published, where in the section Secular Philosophy, or the Book of Lives there are no longer such fatal views on Russian morality. Moreover, this journal publishes specific pedagogical advice. “How to educate in institutions? - says one of the authors. - If the pupils know how to bark in French, then it doesn't matter what nonsense they have in their heads and in their hearts. Education must be divided into general and particular. Make a child a man, before a farmer, a warrior or a scientist. The freer the land in politically, the stricter must be morals in privacy". And further: "Accustom a young man to poverty, and he will get used to luxury himself." “Hurry up the concept of duty in him, and he himself will observe his own benefits.” “In China, a father is rewarded for the services of his son, while in our country, a son is rewarded for the services of his father. To preserve morality, one must use the Chinese principle.”

In the 19th century, numerous collections of rules, tips and instructions were published in Russia for various occasions: how it is customary in secular society to behave at Christinas, weddings, anniversaries, dinners, evening parties, receptions, for a walk, in the theater, etc. Here are some titles of these publications: Savor and etiquette”, “Gentleman. Handbook of an elegant man”, “For young fashionable gentlemen”, “The art of pleasing ladies and young girls”. The books had appendices: a dueling code; samples of conversations and letters; tips on how to choose a rich bride, etc.

Presenter 2. The ability to behave in society does not come immediately. To comprehend the rules of politeness, no child is too small, as some parents believe. But even if you own all the tableware, knowing when to take off your hat and when to kiss a lady's hand, you may not win the sympathy of others if you are not cordial, delicate and restrained.

So we start our game.

street etiquette

Presenter 1. A person spends most of his time in public: on the street, in transport, in public places, at work and in educational institutions. Observance of the rules of good manners in society is necessary in the same way as observance of the rules of the road. Many rules of behavior among people are mentioned in the proverbs of the Russian people: “It’s a bad thing to offend a neighbor”, “The tongue will not dry out from courteous words”, “Do not be rude to the little one, the old one will not remember.” Our first competition is dedicated to street etiquette.

Envelope with the task for the first team

1. How will you behave when you meet your friend on the street?

A. On the go I will shout "Hi!" or wave my hand.

B. If I want to talk, I will stop.

B. After the greeting, I will slow down a little, giving the acquaintances the opportunity to take the initiative themselves.

Natalia Pankova
"The flower of courtesy". The scenario of the event according to the rules of courtesy for children of the older group

introduce children with the concept of etiquette and rules of etiquette;

Show children the important role polite words in people's lives and encourage children to use polite words in speech;

Develop at children communication skills, understanding of various issues and the ability to guess riddles;

Lesson progress:

Adults and children know:

Many words in the world!

And with magic words

We are walking the world with you!

Magic words are called polite words. Which polite words you know?

(thank you, please, sorry, sorry, hello, goodbye, Good morning, evening, day, good night)

Thank you guys! Why do people call polite magic words! Answer please!

(because polite words make people kinder

-Right! Magic words are like little wizards. Faces light up at these words. People begin to relate better to the one who utters these words. Polite words help people communicate, understand each other better, treat each other more attentively and more carefully. Remember, please, one of the kindest and good words in our life. With this word, we greet other people, wish them good health.

Right! We greet and seem to sow good. Good, which then returns to us. It's such a little secret, you need to know it. Let's say hello to you too.

Exercise "I say hello everywhere".

I say hello everywhere:

At home and on the street

Even "Hello" I say

I am a familiar chicken.

Hello golden sun

Hello blue sky

Hello, free breeze,

Hello little oak

Hello morning, hello afternoon.

I'm not too lazy to say hello.

What other words can be said at a meeting? Listen to the poem and say them.

Kind words are not lazy

Repeat to me three times a day.

Just go out the gate

Everyone going to work

Blacksmith, weaver, doctor -

"Good morning!"- I say

"Good afternoon" I scream after

Everyone going to lunch.

"Good evening"- so I meet

Everyone hurrying home for tea.

Which polite words you heard? Now tell me how right to say hello? (you need to look into the eyes, smile and say the words). When you are contacted politely what are you experiencing? (pleasure, joy) if you were treated rudely - what happens to you? (offended, sad) and so that we do not feel sad, we will sing a song.

Song "Hello sky at dawn!"

And now I will make a riddle about another important magic word. Listen carefully and guess what the word is.

Masha knew a lot of words,

But one of them is gone

And it's like a sin

The most spoken:

This word follows

For a gift, for dinner,

This word is said

If you are thanked.

So what is this word? Remember when you need to say "Thank you".

(answers children)

But it happens that sometimes we can offend someone, push or hurt someone. It happens that we didn’t do it on purpose, by accident, and so that they don’t take offense at us, we also say the magic word. What, you guess, after listening to the poem.

I hit grandpa with a ball

And screamed: "I have nothing to do with it!"

But counting to thirty

Said: "Well, grandfather (sorry!")

- Right! But you can also say "Excuse me, please". Now Anya will tell us about this word.

I'm sorry kitty

What drove you away!

I'm probably awake

Understood nothing!

I was awake -

Don't be angry, kitten!

And then the resentment disappears somewhere, a smile appears on the face and the mood becomes good for both. Listen to what happened once in one family.

Dad broke a precious vase -

Grandmother and mother frowned at once,

Dad was embarrassed, looked into their eyes

And timidly and quietly "Sorry" said.

And mom is silent, smiling even:

“We will buy another, there are better ones on sale”.

"Sorry", it would seem, what is in it?

But what a wonderful word.

What word helped dad? How did he say it, in what voice?

But there are times when even magic words don't help. I will now tell about one such boy, and you say, Right whether the boy is doing and what he should have done.

Was this boy is polite

AND, right, Very "mil",

Taking away the ball from the younger ones,

He thanked them

"Thank you" said.

- Right does the boy arrive? And what should he have done if he wanted to play ball? How should I ask, who will show me?

Now stand in a circle and play with the ball in the game "Magic word". The rules are simple. We pass the ball in a circle words:

My cheerful, sonorous ball,

Where did you run off to?

Red, blue, cyan,

Don't chase you!

Whoever has the ball in his hands after these words, he says any magic word.

A game "Magic word".

And now it's time to listen to ditties about rules of conduct.

Play it, balalaika

Balalaika - 3 strings!

Sing along, don't yawn

Come out, dancers.

We will sing ditties to you,

Please don't laugh.

We are young artists

We can be embarrassed.

I washed my hands under the tap

And I forgot to wash my face.

Trezor saw me

shouted: "What a disgrace!"

Lazy in the morning Vova

Comb with a comb.

A cow approached him -

She combed her tongue.

Peter is good at fishing

Can make a boat.

Only "Hello" And "Thank you"

Can't speak.

Kolya quarrels with friends,

He throws his fists into action.

At the bully under the eyes

The bruises don't go away.

Aunt Zina asked

Climb Misha to the attic,

Excuse me, aunt Zina,

I'm not your bastard at all.

And we have in the group has such children? I hope not and never will! Now I will check if you know the magic words.

situations:

Coming in the group needs to talk...

Broke a friend's toy...

When we sit down to eat, we tell everyone ...

You were treated to candy...

Before going to bed, you need to wish everyone ...

When we wake up we say...

If you offended someone...

(children who guessed the words call to themselves for the next game)

Let's play a game now « Flower - seven-flower» . (riddles are written on the petals. Children must choose any petal and guess the riddle. If the children find it difficult, then the rest help)

A game « Flower - seven-flower.»

Tasks:

I met Vitya, a neighbor,

The meeting was sad

On me he is like a torpedo,

Came in from around the corner.

But imagine, in vain from Viti

I was waiting for the words... (Sorry).

Even ice blocks melt

From the word warm (Thank you).

Even the stump will turn green,

When will hear (Good afternoon).

If you can't eat anymore,

Let's tell mom (Thank you).

Boy polite and developed

Says when meeting (Hello).

When we are scolded for pranks,

we say (I'm sorry).

Both France and Denmark

Saying goodbye (Goodbye).

Great, well done guys. You all know the magic words so well. We adults believe and hope that these magic words will always be with you! And I want to wish you to always be polite so that no one is offended, and if, nevertheless, someone was accidentally offended, they always did not hesitate to ask for forgiveness. And then everyone will love you, praise you and want to be friends with you. And never be like the donkey in the poem.

There was a donkey very polite he was brought up,

He smiled at everyone, bowed and "Hello" said,

Then he took a step back and mumbled to the side,

That a hare is a coward, a seal is a mattress,

That the lion is a fool, and the elephant is a fat man ...

He never said a kind word about anyone,

And I beg you, my friend, don't be like him.

All studied today rules are rules of etiquette. And now, finishing our lesson, acquaintance with etiquette, we will sing a song that called: "What is etiquette?"

Song "What is etiquette?"

And so that you never forget these magic words, I will give you a magical flower of kindness and politeness - flower - seven-flower on which these important words are written. And if suddenly you forget any of them, then ask adults to read them to you and may they always be with you.

References:

Magazine "Music Director"

-"Games and activities for the development of preschoolers" Moscow 2007 authors: Petrova T. I., Petrova E. S.

Scenario of the game-travel "Etiquette show"
5-6 grades

Exit leading to the fanfare.

Host: It seems to me that "hello" is the best of words,
Because "hello" means be healthy.
Remember the rule, you know - repeat.
Say this word to the elders first.
We parted in the evening, met in the morning,
So, the word "hello" is time to say.

Hello dear friends! (children's answers)

It was not by chance that I started our event today with this poem, because saying “Hello” at a meeting is one of the rules of etiquette. And our event is called “Etiquette Show”.
What is etiquette? Etiquette is the established order of behavior of people in society. Everyone needs to know it, because each of you respects a person who observes the elementary rules of etiquette. Uncultured, rude people are more likely to be feared, but not loved or respected.
And today we will test ourselves: how well do you know the rules of good manners. You will show how cultured, polite, tactful you are, and we hope that you will forever learn for yourself " Golden Rule» etiquette:
"DO NOT DO TO OTHERS WHAT YOU DO NOT WANT TO YOURSELF."
And now I would like to introduce the teams of participants: 5a ______________, 5b __________, 5c ____________, 6a ___________, 6b __________, 6 c ______________.
You will be evaluated by a competent jury: ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
We are announcing the first business card contest, which evaluates the name, emblem, appearance teams, originality, compliance with the theme of the competition. The maximum number of points is 10.

Team performance.

1. Business card on the topic:
5a- What is etiquette?
5b– Rules of conduct in the theater (museum)
5c - Rules for talking on the phone, using a cell phone
6a- Internet communication rules (netiquette)
6b- Rules for communicating with others
6c- Rules of hospitality
Well, then I propose to continue the competition of experts in the rules of etiquette at the stations.

Distribute itinerary sheets
I remind you that at each stage you will receive points, the team with the most points in total becomes the winner. Working time at the stations is 5 minutes, 1 minute per transition.
Stations:
1. Intelligent.
Answer with signal cards by choosing the correct answer. The highest score - 8 points (1 correct answer - 0.5 points).
1. Senior and junior met. Who should say hello first?
- Jr,
- senior.
2. Who is the first to reach out when meeting?
- junior - senior,
- senior - junior.
3. Who gives up their seat in transport to the elderly, women with children?
- young woman,
- young man,
- both.
4. Who puts first handset?
- young woman,
- young man.
5. You accidentally pushed someone. How to say?
- Sorry,
- I'm sorry.
6. You have arrived at the theater and are making your way to your seat in the row. How do they walk down the row in front of the people sitting?
- back to the seated,
- facing the seated
- sideways to the seated.
7 Is a noisy expression of delight acceptable in a museum, at an exhibition?
- undesirable. In any case, restraint is preferable.
- noisy behavior is acceptable everywhere.
8 How should gifts be received?
- to thank without revealing the gift
- expand, rejoice and thank
- expand and thank with restraint, so as not to offend the guests who presented less successful and significant gifts with delight.
9 Is it necessary to remove the price tag from a gift?
- Necessarily,
- if the label indicates a high price of a gift or a prestigious manufacturer, then it is better to leave it.
10. How to deal with sweets, fruits received as a gift?
- open, thank for the gift and put aside (it is advisable to place fruits and sweets in the refrigerator
- to uncover. Thank and treat those present.
11. How is a linen napkin used?
- put her on her knees
- put next to the plate,
- tucked into the collar.
12. How is bread taken from a common dish?
- hands
- fork
13 Sitting behind festive table how to eat bread?
- bite off a piece
- break off small pieces with your hand and eat them
14 How to introduce your friends to your parents?
- introduce parents to friends
- introduce friends to parents
15 Is it possible to eat on the street, in the theater, in transport?
- it is forbidden
- you can if you're hungry
- possible in all cases
16 Having met a friend (girlfriend) on the street who walks with his
friends, you will say hello:
- only with a friend
- with everyone

2. Culture of speech.
The class is divided into 2 teams. Each team is given a sheet with headings written on it. You need to write as many polite words and phrases as possible in 3 minutes, which are used when:
- meeting
- parting
- if you make a request
-if you apologize
- if you thank
- express good wishes
- express sympathy
For each word: 0.5 points.

3. "Table setting". Highest score - 10 points (3 points for serving and 1 for each question)
Behavior at the table: In one minute, you have to correctly position the cutlery on the table? A plate, a fork, a knife, a spoon, a glass, a glass, a napkin (The dishes are placed in a straight line, retreating from the edge of the table at least 4-5 cm, to the right of the plate they put a knife with a blade to the plate, a spoon, to the left - a fork with the convex side down. Before a glass is placed on the right plate.Napkins in napkin holders.
- How should you eat bread, sandwiches? (They take the bread with their hands and put it on a napkin or a special plate, eat it, breaking it off in small pieces)
- You have grapes, an apple, an orange on your plate. How should they be eaten? (Grapes are eaten by the berry. It is advisable to peel the apple with a fruit knife, cut into slices, cut the middle, eat in small slices. Cut the orange into slices or rings, cutting them, in turn, in half)
- What is a buffet? (A reception, the visitors of which can repeatedly approach the tables on which the dishes are displayed, and, if desired, choose the ones they like the most. Having filled the plate, the guests leave and give others the opportunity to come to the table. Then they settle down on chairs, armchairs, sofas)
- How do they eat cakes, cakes, pies? (Pieces of biscuit are eaten by breaking off small portions with a teaspoon. Puff pastries and pies are eaten by holding them in hands)
- How to say without words that you have finished eating? Demonstrate it (knife and fork crosswise - a pause in the meal, in parallel - the end of the meal)
- From which end should the egg be cracked to eat? (it doesn't matter, it's just more convenient with a dumb one)
- At the end of dinner, how to leave the table? (They leave the table with others, thanking the hosts, pushing a chair behind them)

4. Auction of ideas - for each correct answer - 1 point, max - 9 points
Situation 1:
A smart, lively woman enters the bus; When he sees her, a boy rises next to her.
-Sit down please!
- Well, what are you ... Thank you ... No need ...
- Sit down, sit down. I always make way for older people.
What's wrong with the boy?
Situation 2:
Two girls, passing by a boy, scattered apples from a bag. Bent down and collect. The boy, watching carefully, says: “Pick up over there, please, it has rolled behind the chair.” What's wrong with the boy?
Situation 3.
"On the street". A passer-by asks you how to get to the cinema. The cinema is right next to it. What gesture do you use when answering a passerby? (PC for the jury: no finger pointing, only with the whole hand)
Situation 4.
"At the lesson". The teacher silently points out the error to the student writing on the blackboard. The student immediately remembers, annoyed at himself. Which gestures are used by the teacher and which by the student?
Situation 5. At dinner, your grandmother offers you to eat porridge, and you silently refuse. What gestures and facial expressions do you use? And how to say in words so as not to offend your grandmother?
Situation 6.
"On the march". Imagine this: you are camping around a campfire. One boy went to the river for water. Suddenly he comes running and excitedly talks about the fact that he was frightened of something there, on the river. What gestures and facial expressions does he use?
Now I will offer you several situations of meetings and farewells. Assignment: I describe the situation, and you answer the question and argue, explain your answer.
Situation 7.
Two familiar boys meet. How do they greet each other?
Situation 8.
The boy is dating a girl he knows. Who is the first to reach out?
Situation 9.
The boy meets a familiar adult. Who is the first to reach out?

5. My phone rang - 2 points for each situation, max - 10 points
Listen to the conversation on the phone and answer the question: did the guys have a conversation on the phone? Why do you think so?
Scene.
Two boys are sitting by the phone.
First: Hello! Hello!
Second: Hello!
First: Do you hear anything?
Second: Listen. Do you hear?
First: Listen. That's great! Can you hear well?
Second: Good! And you?
First: And I'm fine. Ha ha ha! Can you hear me laughing? Let's talk.
Second: Come on. What to talk about?
First: Well, about what... About anything... It's good that we bought a phone, right?
Second: True.
First: But if they didn’t buy it, it would be bad. Is it true?
Second: True.
First: Well?
Second: What is "well"?
First: Why aren't you talking?
Second: Why aren't you talking?
First: I don't know what to talk about. It always happens like this: when you need to talk, you don’t know what to talk about, and when you don’t need to talk, you talk and talk like that.
PC.
The disadvantage of this conversation is that it is empty of content.
Scene number 2.
Two students are sitting by the phones. The first one dials a number, the second one's phone rings.
First.
Who? Who am I talking to?
Second.
Hello. And who do you need?
First.
What? Where am I?
Second.
Hello comrade! Where did you want to go?
The first one hangs up. The beeps sound.
Jury PC.
First you need to greet the interlocutor and ask for the phone of the one you need. For example: “Hello. Please ask Petya on the phone"
If you were told that you were in the wrong place, you can ask again: “Excuse me, is this number 1-58-17?” If they say no, then you need to apologize and say goodbye.
The one who was called should not ask who he needs, but should ask what phone he is calling.
Questions:
- They called and asked for your older brother. What formulas of speech etiquette do you use in a conversation? (Please wait. Sorry, but it will be later)
A girl calls her sick friend, but her mother answers the phone. How can a girl turn to her? Where to start a conversation? Is it okay to use the word "hello" when saying hello? What is the best way to express your request?
- List the rules of telephone etiquette. (*Children in advance, when preparing, can use drawings illustrating these rules. The conversation on the phone should be meaningful. It should be short. You should speak politely, say hello, introduce yourself, address by name)

6. Creative
Team captains (or anyone who wants to) draw a card with a proverb written on it. It is necessary to depict a proverb using facial expressions and gestures. The team guesses the proverb. The maximum number of points is 8 (4 points for artistry, 4 points if the team guesses the proverb).

Gathering in the auditorium

"Let's compliment each other"
A compliment to the neighboring team and a compliment to your favorite school.

Behavior of the results, rewarding.

Be kind or be kind -
These words are useful in conversation.
It is easy with them on a walk and at home,
It would be nice to hear from others.
If you are educated, even if you are polite,
They will never say bad things about you.
You will give way to the old lady in the transport.
Helping mom, buy bread for dinner.
You will not chat with a friend in class
And don't forget to say "thank you".
You will put things in order in the room, of course.
And congratulate your friends on the holiday cordially.
You can't interrupt adults in a conversation.
And in misfortune, you will always help a friend.
The weak in defense, right, you can’t refuse,
About the other, of course, you can’t say bad words.
A polite child is a treasure!
Everyone will be happy to meet you!

I hope that today you have become a little more polite! We will be glad to meet you, our polite children, and we will not forget to say a simple word at parting - goodbye!